AKAHAI AND BAKING IN LOVE

Akahai: At home and with family.
Play with Quinn chess
Help my mom
Help my brother do his homework
Set the table
Feed the fish
Do the trash
Kind words: thank you, nice to meet you, hello, hi

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: AKAHAI

When I was growing up back in the 70s, my mom was on a health food kick and switched from making Bisquick pancakes to only feeding us ones made from whole wheat. To adults, I’m sure those pancakes tasted nutty and earthy. As a kid, it tasted faintly like walnut skins that even when doused with maple syrup seemed bitter. They weren’t my favorite, but I still ate a ton when the plate was placed in front of me. I definitely preferred them to our regular breakfast of  of grapes and unsweetened whole wheat cereal with skim milk. On weekends, when my dad had time to eat with us, we were treated to Spam, eggs, Vienna Sausage, or fried rice. I wished everyday could be a weekend. But favorite or not, I loved my mom’s cooking and felt thankful she regularly prepared us hearty meals. 

Later as a parent, I followed in my mom’s footsteps albeit far less healthy. On weekdays, with the rush to get to work, my children’s typical breakfast comprised of grapes and Cheerios from a zip-lock bag which they ate in the backseat of the car. But on the weekends, they got to choose what they wanted me to make. Their top choice was a steaming pile of buttery, crispy chocolate chip pancakes made with all-purpose flour. I got a basic but delicious recipe from Martha Stewart Living before her legal woes and used it as a base to add-on my kids’ favorites: chocolate chips, bananas, strawberries, powdered sugar and peanut butter. Regardless the topping, I wanted them to feel what I felt when I ate my mom’s fried rice – my love baked into each pancake.


5 PURSUITS of AKAHAI:

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch Going Down Home with Daddy written by Kelly Starling Lyons, illustrated by Daniel Minter, and read by Jeffrey Wright.  Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Ask your kūpuna or makua to share stories about their kūpuna, their ʻāina, and what made them special.
  • SKILLS: Using evidence from the text, why do you think the author wrote this book?
  • INTELLECT: Lil Alan’s ancestors were enslaved people who were captured and shipped from Africa to work the plantations growing cotton and tobacco. Working and living conditions were harsh as they lived under constant fear of being punished and separated from their families – even at the plantation owned by our first president. Learn more about the conditions under which they lived here.
  • CRITICALITY: Lil Alan finds a way to give a gift to Granny that is from his heart and is filled with meaning and love. One of the items he held was a pecan. See how the pecan is a symbol for black resilience in their fight for freedom. 
  • JOY: With your ʻohana, gather items that are special and symbolic of your kūpuna and their ʻāina and find a way to display them.

READ FOR THE GOLD – 2026 WINTER READING CHALLENGE

Hawaiʻi’s public libraries are teaming up with Olympic Gold medalist Kristi Yamaguchi’s Always Dream to celebrate the 2026 Winter Olympics with a special Read for the Gold | Winter Reading Challenge. Every 50 minutes you read earns you a chance to win:

  • A limited edition READ poster autographed by Kristi Yamaguchi
  • A special edition Kristi Yamaguchi Barbie Doll
  • A special virtual meet and greet with Olympic Gold medalist Kristi Yamaguchi

To get started, sign up or login to the Beanstack website or via the Beanstack app, join the challenge and log your reading! 

BLACK HISTORY MONTH

Celebrate Black History Month with a poignant poem by Langston Hughes. Playing off of Walt Whitman’s most famous poem “I Hear America Singing,” Hughes wrote “I, Too.” It served both as  a response to Whitman, whom Hughes was a fan, and protested the plight of Black Americans.

MAHINA ʻŌLELO HAWAIʻI

Along with Black History Month, February is Hawaiian Language Month. Celebrate ʻōlelo Hawaiʻi by learning the language and checking out the numerous activities planned for the month. See this website for a listing of activities.

SCHOOL QUALITY SURVEY

Every year, we ask our parents and guardians to assist in providing us feedback that reinforces the good work we’ve been doing and lets us know how we might improve. Please help us once again gather this feedback by taking this year’s School Quality Survey found at this link. The survey will remain open until March 12. We look forward to hearing from you.

CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR KĀNEʻOHE SHIRT WEDNESDAYS

Help us build unity and show our lōkahi by wearing a shirt that celebrates Kāneʻohe on Wednesdays. Wear any previous Fun Run or grade level shirt.

WEEKLY VIRTUAL PIKO

Our Weekly Piko, has changed to twice-a-week. In-person on the first day of the week and virtual on the last day. At piko we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays when we meet in-person. If you would like to share your reflections on the week’s Aloha value, please contact me.

If you’d like to celebrate the accomplishments of our students outside of the school day. Please use this link to share a brief shout-out for your child that we can share at piko.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Feb 195:30 – 6:30 PM Kindergarten Preview Night (for incoming Kindergarteners – SY 2027-28) @KES cafe. RSVP here.
Feb 218:15 – 10:30 AM Windward District Science & Engineering Fair – Public Viewing and Awards Ceremony @WCC
Feb 252:05 PM Students Dismissal (switch with 2/27) 4:30 PM School Community Council Mtg via Zoom 5:30 PM KES Ohana Mtg via Zoom
Feb 271:15 Student Dismissal (switch with 2/25) 1:30 – 3:45 PM STEM Hōʻike Classroom visits
Mar 112:05 PM Student Dismissal (switch with 3/13)
Mar 13KES Fun Run 1:15 Student Dismissal (switch with 3/11)
Mar 16 – 20Spring Break

AHONUI AND WAITING

Patience is not sitting and waiting.
Patience is foreseeing.
It is looking at the thorn and seeing the rose
Looking at the night and seeing the day
-Rumi
Source: Iulia Stranton 
https://www.instagram.com/p/CUdb3wQhu-G/

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: AHONUI

Many many years ago, 
I couldn’t wait to be taller 
Longing to reach the highest shelves
And grab any snack I wanted

Many, many years ago,
I couldn’t wait to be older
Longing to make my own choices
And be the boss of myself

Many, many years ago,
I couldn’t wait to graduate
Longing to never have homework
And be done with studying

Many, many years ago,
I couldn’t wait to find someone 
Longing to spend all my time with
And I’d never be alone

Years have past and I’m taller
And unfortunately wider
I can reach all the shelves I want
But need to pass on the snacks

Years have past and I’m older
And unfortunately grayer 
I make decisions that add stress
And I answer to many

Years have past and I graduated
Yet I find myself still in school
I am too fulfilled by learning
And gladly doing homework

Years have past and I’m paired
Connected even when apart
Together the rest of our lives
I am thankful I waited.


5 PURSUITS of AHONUI:

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch Salt in his Shoes – Michael Jordan: In Pursuit of a Dream written by Roslyn Jordan and Deloris Jordan. Illustrated by Kadir Nelson.  Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Discuss with your kūpuna or makua about a time where you needed to be patient. What happened? What would’ve happened if you weren’t patient?
  • SKILLS: Using evidence from the text, how did Michael practice ahonui?
  • INTELLECT: Michael’s father advised that it’s not enough to be tall but to also have determination. What does determination mean? What are synonyms for determination? What is an antonym?
  • CRITICALITY: Michael’s nemesis kept putting him down for being short and tried to discourage him from playing. How did Michael overcome this boy’s bullying? Provide examples from the text.
  • JOY: With your ʻohana play one of these fun basketball games

BLACK HISTORY MONTH

Celebrate Black History Month with a poignant poem by Langston Hughes. Playing off of Walt Whitman’s most famous poem “I Hear America Singing,” Hughes wrote “I, Too.” It served both as  a response to Whitman, whom Hughes was a fan, and protested the plight of Black Americans.

MAHINA ʻŌLELO HAWAIʻI

Along with Black History Month, February is Hawaiian Language Month. Celebrate ʻōlelo Hawaiʻi by learning the language and checking out the numerous activities planned for the month. See this website for a listing of activities.

SCHOOL QUALITY SURVEY

Every year, we ask our parents and guardians to assist in providing us feedback that reinforces the good work we’ve been doing and lets us know how we might improve. Please help us once again gather this feedback by taking this year’s School Quality Survey found at this link. The survey will remain open until March 12. We look forward to hearing from you.


CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR KĀNEʻOHE SHIRT WEDNESDAYS

Help us build unity and show our lōkahi by wearing a shirt that celebrates Kāneʻohe on Wednesdays. Wear any previous Fun Run or grade level shirt.

WEEKLY VIRTUAL PIKO

Our Weekly Piko, has changed to twice-a-week. In-person on the first day of the week and virtual on the last day. At piko we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays when we meet in-person. If you would like to share your reflections on the week’s Aloha value, please contact me.

If you’d like to celebrate the accomplishments of our students outside of the school day. Please use this link to share a brief shout-out for your child that we can share at piko.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Feb 9School Cancelled by order of the Governor
Feb 13Teacher Institute Day – no school/office open (By order of the Superintendent)
Feb 185:30 PM KES Ohana Mtg via Zoom
Feb 252:05 PM Students Dismissal (switch with 2/27) 4:30 PM School Community Council Mtg via Zoom
Feb 271:15 Student Dismissal (switch with 2/25) 1:30 – 3:45 PM STEM Hōʻike Classroom visits
Mar 112:05 PM Student Dismissal (switch with 3/13)
Mar 13KES Fun Run 1:15 Student Dismissal (switch with 3/11)
Mar 16 – 20Spring Break

HAʻAHAʻA AND SEEING FROM OTHER’S EYES

Do I really make a difference? 🐳 Sometimes we can't see it, but others do.
Source

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: HAʻAHAʻA

When was the last time you marveled at a vibrant rainbow spanning across a valley? Or soaked in the warm rays of sun stretching across the horizon at sunset? Too often I rush from home to work and back again, mentally sorting through an endless list of things to do. I replay conversations in mind, reflecting on how I might have said things better. My focus is so inward that I miss the subtle beauty lying in plain sight. But sometimes, I experience the benefit of hearing from someone that looks at my everyday context from a fresh perspective.

On Friday, we hosted 30 principals from Arizona, California, Hawaiʻi, Idaho, Utah and Washington, including the president of the National Association of Elementary School Principals. The visitors broke up into small groups and heard from our 4th graders who are writing a musical about Keahiakahoe, 3rd graders inventing traps to capture the invasive Coconut Rhinoceros Beetle, students learning ukulele with Kumu Jonah, 4th graders caring for the agroforest at the top of the campus, and 6th grade math enrichment students using data science to investigate our school’s attendance challenges. They then went on a school tour led by our Aloha Ambassadors visiting the murals and places of interest all around our school. At the end of the tour, Mr. Wali shared how he is transforming the Mokulele edge of campus into a Peace Path through his partnership with the Hawaiʻi Native Plants in Schools Program. Finally, our visitors were treated to a delicious snack prepared by our cafeteria and banana chips compliments of Mr. Wali and Kumu Kalei. 

As we debriefed, the principals shared how impressed they were with our student presenters. They noted how poised and well-informed they were. Further, they along with every staff member who greeted our visitors, were full of warmth, friendliness, and a welcoming spirit. Even our well-groomed campus seemed to be charged with aloha. The principals admired how ʻike and ʻōlelo Hawaiʻi permeated learning experiences. Some of the principals are from areas where Native American students exist but are barely acknowledged. Our example inspired them to change their efforts. 

Their observations and compliments surely warmed my heart and renewed my appreciation for our school, staff, students, community and ʻohana. This is not to say that I did not know how special and extraordinary are our people and their efforts. After all, just prior to this I applied our school to receive a special recognition for the strength of our community, culture of aloha, and people. It’s just that on most days, I am mired with working with our team on addressing areas of need. 

We, like every school, have our strengths and challenges. But most days, we focus primarily on the challenges. Ultimately, this is critical to the continuous improvement cycle. How can we get better if we do not study and address our weaknesses? But too often, this is all we see and this is not healthy. It is all too easy to become overwhelmed, frustrated, and lose our stamina. Problems overshadow solutions. Complaining hinders progress.

To continually improve we must also be clear on what we do well and determine how we leverage those strengths. It is upon a foundation of strengths that we are able to construct scaffolds of hope and optimism. From those heights, we are then better able to see our beauty and the potential solutions hiding in plain sight …just as our visitors helped make obvious.


5 PURSUITS of HAʻAHAʻA:

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch The Cot in the Living Room written by Hilda Eunice Burgos and illustrated by Gary D’Alessandro.  Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Have you ever slept over someone else’s home? What was it like? How did you feel?
  • SKILLS: Use evidence from the text, what changes for the little girl when she repeatedly says,”It’s not fair?”
  • INTELLECT: The adults who drop the kids off to sleep on the cot in the living room have jobs that require overnight work. Raquel’s dad works in a hospital, Edgardo’s mom is a singer, and little Lisa’s grandmother cleans offices. Can you think of other jobs that people do at night?
  • CRITICALITY: After she sleeps on the cot herself, the main character develops empathy for the other children. What is empathy? What do you think made her change her feelings? How did her change impact the visiting children? Why is it important to be empathetic? How can you be empathetic toward someone in need?
  • JOY: Learn to use math to practice fairness. Then play the card game and movement match with your kūpuna or makua.

FUN AGE-BASED ACTIVITIES TO STRENGTHEN KIDSʻ PROBLEM-SOLVING AT HOME

Along with communication, teamwork, and leadership, problem-solving is seen by employers as one of the critical skills tomorrow’s workers must possess to become successful. sourceTo reinforce this skill at home, the NAESP offers these age-based, practical ways families can nurture logic skills in their child. See the resource here.

SCHOOL QUALITY SURVEY

Every year, we ask our parents and guardians to assist in providing us feedback that reinforces the good work we’ve been doing and lets us know how we might improve. Please help us once again gather this feedback by taking this year’s School Quality Survey found at this link. The survey will remain open until March 12. We look forward to hearing from you.


CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR KĀNEʻOHE SHIRT WEDNESDAYS

Help us build unity and show our lōkahi by wearing a shirt that celebrates Kāneʻohe on Wednesdays. Wear any previous Fun Run or grade level shirt.

WEEKLY VIRTUAL PIKO

Our Weekly Piko, has changed to twice-a-week. In-person on the first day of the week and virtual on the last day. At piko we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays when we meet in-person. If you would like to share your reflections on the week’s Aloha value, please contact me.

If you’d like to celebrate the accomplishments of our students outside of the school day. Please use this link to share a brief shout-out for your child that we can share at piko.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Feb 45:30 PM Wellness Committee via Zoom
Feb 62:05 PM Washington DC Trip Jamba Juice Fundraiser (while supplies last)
Feb 9EO/Teacher Institute Day – no school/office open
Feb 185:30 PM KES Ohana Mtg via Zoom
Feb 252:05 Students Dismissal (switch with 2/27) 4:30 PM School Community Council Mtg via Zoom
Feb 271:15 Student Dismissal (switch with 2/25) 1:30 – 3:45 PM STEM Hōʻike Classroom visits

ʻOLUʻOLU AND BELONGING

As ʻoluʻolu is being both strong and gentle simultaneously, it can show up in different contexts such as feeling angry while controlling your response.

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: ʻOLUʻOLU

Recently, I spoke with a parent who was distressed about his child defying how she was raised. The child started the year with a new group of friends who were more outgoing and received more attention than her previous set of friends. To fit in, the child was sneaking onto her phone to message friends and getting into more drama. While she did not actively participate in anything inappropriate, she was present and did not protest when her friends acted with malice. The parent worried that she was losing his child.

As a 6th grader,  I transferred from my neighborhood elementary school to a private, all boys school. At my old school, I did not think much about who I was and whether I belonged. I had many friends, teachers and a principal whom I knew loved me. They kindly corrected my mistakes and celebrated my accomplishments. At my new school, I had caring teachers, but I struggled to make friends. There, the culture valued those who committed acts of overpowering strength or possessed a cruel, incisive tongue. Although I had gotten into a couple of fights at my old school, my parents encouraged me to restrain those instincts especially if those around me were smaller in stature. So, while taller and heavier than most of my classmates, I muted my physical abilities. My tongue, on the other hand, was unleashed.

Belittling my classmates became my sport and my ticket to fitting in. While I wouldn’t  physically fight those smaller than me, I did furiously denigrate those who were less socially accepted and not as quick with their quips. By the end of intermediate school, I greatly reduced this behavior. I formed authentic friendships and no longer felt the need to fit in. Simultaneously, that desperation that I felt was replaced by the guilt of how I acted. It bore a hole in my conscience. Eventually I made friends with most of the guys I hurt, but I was too weak to make amends with the person to whom I slashed with my cruelest insults. Instead, throughout high school, I avoided him. 

It wasn’t until our freshman year of college did I attempt to apologize. Unsurprisingly, he did not accept my sorries was distrustful of my sincerity. Years later, a mutual contact assured me that all is forgiven, but I am sure not forgotten. For me, I take this as a lesson of the dangers of trying to fit in as opposed to just belonging. 

On last week’s post, I shared a podcast featuring Dr. Todd Rose (author of one of my favorite books, The End of Average). I again highly recommend listening to the entire interview, but I especially recommend this section about fitting in vs belonging.  It’s important for us to teach our children this distinction…that fitting in is about doing things we think others expect of us – like me belittling others. Belonging is about being recognized, accepted and loved for who we are. Additionally, to truly belong, we must first accept and love ourselves for we are. To help them on their way, our children need to hear everyday, “You deserve to belong.


5 PURSUITS of ʻOLUʻOLU:

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch Sometimes People March written and illustrated by Tessa Allen.  Then with you child, answer the following:


DRIVE WITH ALOHA

Please remember that we all want to get our children to school safely and on-time. Please obey all traffic rules and to always drive with aloha – meaning show ahonui (patience) and akahai (grace and kindness). Please wait patiently in the line that forms in the morning and afternoon. Everyone is doing their best and wants to quickly get on their way. Mahalo nui loa for your help in keeping our roads and driveways safe for our keiki.

SCHOOL QUALITY SURVEY

Every year, we ask our parents and guardians to assist in providing us feedback that reinforces the good work we’ve been doing and lets us know how we might improve. Please help us once again gather this feedback by taking this year’s School Quality Survey found at this link. The survey will remain open until March 12. We look forward to hearing from you.


CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR KĀNEʻOHE SHIRT WEDNESDAYS

Help us build unity and show our lōkahi by wearing a shirt that celebrates Kāneʻohe on Wednesdays. Wear any previous Fun Run or grade level shirt.

WEEKLY VIRTUAL PIKO

Our Weekly Piko, has changed to twice-a-week. In-person on the first day of the week and virtual on the last day. At piko we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays when we meet in-person. If you would like to share your reflections on the week’s Aloha value, please contact me.

If you’d like to celebrate the accomplishments of our students outside of the school day. Please use this link to share a brief shout-out for your child that we can share at piko.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Feb 44:30 PM Wellness Committee via Zoom
Feb 9EO/Teacher Institute Day – no school/office open
Feb 185:30 PM KES Ohana Mtg via Zoom
Feb 252:05 Students Dismissal (switch with 2/27) 4:30 PM School Community Council Mtg via Zoom
Feb 271:15 Student Dismissal (switch with 2/25) 1:30 – 3:45 PM STEM Hōʻike Classroom visits

LŌKAHI AND SELF-COMPARISON

Belonging is when you are recognized, accepted, and even loved for who you are. Fitting in is when you are accepted only if you become who others want you to be.

Dr. Todd Rose

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: LŌKAHI

When I reflect upon my development as a science teacher, one of the ways I measure my growth is by listing what got broken or stolen during my first year of teaching.

  •      14 gas spigots
  •      1 Videocassette Recorder
  •      Dozens of beakers, Erlenmeyer flasks, and test tubes
  •      1 electrical outlet

Clearly, I struggled with classroom management. One of the school’s most revered substitute teachers decided to quit after subbing for my class – a travesty I take responsibility for since the classroom culture was akin to the Wild West. Well, I take a large part of the responsibility. I inherited my classroom from a longterm substitute who habitually fell asleep during class, especially on days following long weekends. It would be easy to blame him, the students and the few other teachers across the school who contributed to this dysfunctional culture with classrooms seemingly devoid of learning and rampant with misbehaviors. In fact, at the time, I soothed my ego by saying, “My class is feral but at least I’m doing better than…”

During my second year, tired of feeling downtrodden and overwhelmed, I came to a realization. My vice-principal arranged for me to observe some of our best teachers at our school. There I saw a completely different side of my same students. They were thoughtfully contributing to class discussions, working dedicatedly on problems, and productively collaborating with peers. I began to question my approach. Instead of comparing myself to the worst performing teachers, I really should be holding myself up to our school’s best. Teachers like Nona Oato who despite her shorter stature, masterfully captivated her students. Or Kathy Ellwin who quietly and lovingly created bonds with her students that got them to learn way more than they ever thought they could.

To this day, despite attaining National Board Certification, earning awards and building up my confidence as a teacher, I would never dare to equate my teaching abilities with theirs.They possessed a level of craft I could never attain. Maybe it’s like how when I see my former teachers, I could never call them by their first name despite their insistences. 

I am, however, comforted that I came far enough to receive their praise. And more than that, to have shared connections far deeper than teaching at the same school or sharing the same students. Our efforts combined to help those students grow, learn, and succeed. Together, we moved our school to have one of the most prestigious reputations at that time. And with Lōkahi, we fostered a culture of continuous learning, improvement, and efficacy.

Note: I started this entry reflecting on Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. in honor of the holiday dedicated to his memory. Earlier drafts, decried those who attempt to co-opt his accomplishments by comparing themselves to superficial components of Dr. King. But then, I decided it would be better to live his example and practice aloha by remembering the way I improved by comparing myself to others.


5 PURSUITS of LŌKAHI:

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch We Belong written by Laura Purdy Salas and illustrated by Carlos Velez Aguilera.  Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Share with your kūpuna or mākua ways in which you are different and way in which you are alike. 
  • SKILLS: Use evidence from the text, to explain the author’s message and purpose.
  • INTELLECT: In the book, the illustrator provides many examples of how people are all different. Point out as many as you can. 
  • CRITICALITY: In the book, the author, like Queen Liliuokalani advises, takes a heavenly  perspective as she states, “When we learn from each other, we expand what we know. Our hearts crack open, like seeds, and they grow.” As your kūpuna or mākua to describe a lesson they learned from someone who is completely different from them.
  • JOY: Use the poem template created by the author and write your own “We Belong” poem.

THIS SHOCKING TRUTH ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE

Motivational speaker, author and podcaster Mel Robbins had a conversation with Dr. Todd Rose (author of one of my favorite books, The End of Average) about his research into the lies we tell ourselves because we want to fit in. As depressing as it felt listening to how social media is set up to promote and proliferate unpopular fringe ideas, Dr. Rose reveals how we can all live and raise our children to live more authentic, meaningful lives. Listen to the podcast here.


CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR KĀNEʻOHE SHIRT WEDNESDAYS

Help us build unity and show our lōkahi by wearing a shirt that celebrates Kāneʻohe on Wednesdays. Wear any previous Fun Run or grade level shirt.

WEEKLY VIRTUAL PIKO

Our Weekly Piko, has changed to twice-a-week. In-person on the first day of the week and virtual on the last day. At piko we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays when we meet in-person. If you would like to share your reflections on the week’s Aloha value, please contact me.

If you’d like to celebrate the accomplishments of our students outside of the school day. Please use this link to share a brief shout-out for your child that we can share at piko.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Jan 208:15 AM Off-Campus Evacuation Drill to Castle High
Jan 215:30 PM KES Ohana Mtg @Zoom
Jan 232nd Quarter Report Cards Released
Feb 9Teacher Institute Day – no school/office open
Feb 252:05 Students Dismissal (switch with 2/27)
Feb 271:15 Student Dismissal (switch with 2/25)1:30 – 3:45 PM STEM Hōʻike Classroom visits

AKAHAI AND COMPLAINING

Aka, with care, and hai, to speak. To be tender of heart; meek

Andrews, Hawaiian Dictionary, 1865

Ua ola no i ka pane a ke aloha

There is life in a kindly reply.

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: AKAHAI

In preparing for this week’s blog, I searched for children’s books about complaining. I hoped to find something that could help students know how to positively communicate their frustrations as well as how to show akahai when someone else is complaining. What I found instead were books aimed at generating gratitude for your present situation by sharing stories about kids who “had it worse.” There were books about being a laborer building the great pyramids of Giza, being a worker during the devastating Triangle shirtwaist factory fire of 1911, and paradoxically one even about being an American colonist. 

Perhaps the topic of complaining might be too nuanced and complex to be featured in a children’s picture book. After all, there are both positive and negative aspects of complaining. Expressing one’s complaints is at the heart of the first amendment. Protesting and issuing grievances have brought about strides in civil rights, suffrage, and reforms to malfeasance. Complaints in the workplace have led to the 5-day work week, more equitable treatment, and sexual harassment reform. While we are still far from solving the ills causing inequity, corruption, and harm, complaining in the form of non-violent protests and legal action carves a path towards a better tomorrow.

On the other hand, complaining, when done in excess or with malicious intent, can be destructive. Back in my twenties, I used to be friends with a guy who frequently complained about his life without making any effort to better his situation. He grumbled that his parents were overbearing yet continued to live with them. He whined about being overworked by a demanding boss but did not voice his concerns or look for other employment. He moaned about being single but didn’t make any effort to meet someone or give attention to girls he did not see as physically attractive. Like waves persistently lapping against the walls of a sand castle, his complaints eventually wore away any positivity that existed until our friendship collapsed. My only regret is that I left instead of addressing his complaining with akahai.

Worse yet, I worked with a few people who maliciously complained about co-workers behind their back. Their gossip fueled fear of being targeted and decimated trust in our workplace culture. My mistake as a leader was that I talked about the gossip as if it were a faceless virus afflicting our community –  a general menace everyone should avoid. I offered no solutions, no practice to rid ourselves of gossip. Instead, I should have talked with the gossipers and demanded they stop or face consequences. This would have shown the greatest akahai to our community. . . and to them as well. 

I believe people want to be loved and want to have a positive impact on others. But sometimes, we get caught up in negative attention and use this to substitute for any lack of love we may be experiencing. Being corrected is uncomfortable but is better when it places us on a corrected path. I now regret telling those gossipers this and sharing that I do sincerely believe in their ability to multiply aloha. 


5 PURSUITS of AKAHAI:

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch Words and Your Heart written and illustrated by Kate Jane Neal.  Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Share with your kūpuna or mākua your favorite words your ʻohana uses including ones that are from your culture.
  • SKILLS: Use evidence from the text, what do you think is the author’s purpose? What do you think the author was trying to accomplish by writing this?
  • INTELLECT: In the book, the author says “Your words have power.” Make a list of synonyms the author could have used instead of ʻpowerʻ. Choose one synonym and recreate the page which makes this statement.
  • CRITICALITY: In the book, the author advises that we use our words to look after each other’s hearts. What is an action you can take this week to use your words to look after other’s hearts and create more aloha in the world?
  • JOY: With your ʻohana, do as the author states and use your words to make each other “laugh out loud and roll around.” Here, here, and here are a few resources for jokes. 

STANDARDS-BASED GRADING

For the past two years, our teachers have been deepening their understanding of how to grade based on standards. While we are still refining our practice, you may notice differences on the 2nd quarter report card. For example, grades will not be an average of all of their work but instead will represent their current level of mastery of learning expectations. We think this will help our staff to be more consistent, in synch, and able to multiply our efforts to get all students to learn at high levels. The following is an infographic that synthesizes learning from our trainings and staff perspectives that more extensively explains the differences between traditional vs standards-based grading.


CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR KĀNEʻOHE SHIRT WEDNESDAYS

Help us build unity and show our lōkahi by wearing a shirt that celebrates Kāneʻohe on Wednesdays. Wear any previous Fun Run or grade level shirt.

WEEKLY VIRTUAL PIKO

Our Weekly Piko, has changed to twice-a-week. In-person on the first day of the week and virtual on the last day. At piko we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays when we meet in-person. If you would like to share your reflections on the week’s Aloha value, please contact me.

If you’d like to celebrate the accomplishments of our students outside of the school day. Please use this link to share a brief shout-out for your child that we can share at piko.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Jan 144:30 PM Wellness Committee Mtg @Zoom
Jan 215:30 PM KES Ohana Mtg @Zoom
Jan 232nd Quarter Report Cards Released
Feb 9Teacher Institute Day – no school/office open
Feb 252:05 Students Dismissal (switch with 2/27)
Feb 271:15 Student Dismissal (switch with 2/25)
1:30 – 3:45 PM STEM Hōʻike Classroom visits

AHONUI AND VIGILENT PATIENCE

E hoʻāhonui aʻe ā pau kēia pilikia
Be patient until this trouble is over.

     Pukui, Mary Kawena, Elbert, Samuel H. (1965). Hawaiian Dictionary

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: AHONUI

As it is becoming my New Year’s tradition, I reread Amanda Gorman’s ʻNew Day’s Lyricʻ and reflect upon her sagacity during the days of the pandemic:

This hope is our door, our portal.
Even if we never get back to normal,
Someday we can venture beyond it,
To leave the known and take the first steps.
So let us not return to what was normal,
But reach toward what is next.

Amada Gorman, ʻNew Day’sʻ Lyric

As a vocal school leader, I would have been justified to be very fearful for my future and that of our school given the events of 2025: eduction funds slashed; celebrating diversity demonized; elevating ʻike Hawaiʻi thwarted; striving for equity denigrated. Much of what we value as an inclusive, innovative school seemed to targeted.

Yet, we did our best to reach forward and not be hindered by fear. We planned ahead so that we may venture beyond these times and ensure these threats do not become normal. We practiced and will continue to exercise ahonui.

On one of the first mornings of winter break, I stepped out onto the cold, wet tile of our apartment balcony and into the velvety dawn to admire the sunrise. A fiery hue quietly peaked over Leahi and mottled the otherwise dark horizon. Once orange rays reflected off of the mirrored surfaces shielding downtown Honolulu, I walked back into the apartment and suddenly felt a sharp pain in my big toe. Expletives about getting old immediately littered my brain. What could it be now? But then I thought to look at the underside of my foot. To my surprise, there was a bee struggling to free itself from my sock. I carefully removed it, attempting to completely extract its long, mucous-y stinger.

As the day wore on, the sharp pain below my big toe dulled. The next day, I still felt sore, but could ignore it with the busy-ness of end-of-year tasks. That evening, while showering, I lifted my foot to scrub its underside. A throbbing, quarter-sized purple sore seemed to be consuming my toe. I asked my girlfriend to inspect it and confirm if a portion of the stinger remained in my foot. After digging around with a pinpointed tweezer, she pulled out a minuscule filament. My foot immediately felt better as the purple dissipated.

It’s difficult to conceive how something so microscopic could cause such a great pain. Yet, it is part of the bee’s defense and has made me be more observant stepping out onto the balcony. As agonizing the experience and cautious it has made me, I would not say it has made me fearful. Instead, I use it as a metaphor for how I may look at the present with the following lens:

Bees are avoidable;
Budgets buttressed;
Inclusivity empowers student achievement; and
Aloha can never be extinguished.


5 PURSUITS of AHONUI:

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch Just Kidding written by Tracy Ludwig and illustrated by Adam Gustavson.  Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Share with your kūpuna or mākua if they joke around with their friends or ʻohana. If they do, what does it look and sound like.
  • SKILLS: Use evidence from the text, how does the author differentiate between kidding and hurtful teasing?
  • INTELLECT: In the book, how does Mrs. Winter describe the difference between tattling (or snitching) and reporting? How might reporting be a way of showing aloha to someone else?
  • CRITICALITY: In the book, DJ’s father teaches him how to respond when Vince uses words and actions that are hurtful. Like DJ, practice with your kūpuna or mākua responding to hurtful comments by not saying/doing anything mean back to the teaser.
  • JOY: With your ʻohana or a group of friends, check out this game that asks participants to tell the difference between“Friendly Teasing vs Hurtful Teasing”

30 NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTIONS FOR KIDS

Speaking from experience, the start of a new year often brings lofty resolutions and great intentions that are too often short-lived. Yet, setting goals and sticking with them are vital skills for our students to learn. By setting realistic, age-appropriate, manageable goals, kids learn the importance of perseverance and experience the joys of making tangible progress. Read more here for helpful suggestions on setting resolutions with your children. 


CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR KĀNEʻOHE SHIRT WEDNESDAYS

Help us build unity and show our lōkahi by wearing a shirt that celebrates Kāneʻohe on Wednesdays. Wear any previous Fun Run or grade level shirt.

WEEKLY VIRTUAL PIKO

Our Weekly Piko, has changed to twice-a-week. In-person on the first day of the week and virtual on the last day. At piko we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays when we meet in-person. If you would like to share your reflections on the week’s Aloha value, please contact me.

If you’d like to celebrate the accomplishments of our students outside of the school day. Please use this link to share a brief shout-out for your child that we can share at piko.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Jan 5Teacher Work Day – No students
Jan 6Complex PC Day – No students
Jan 7 1st Day of School for 2026 4:30 PM KES SCC Mtg @Zoom
Jan 144:30 PM Wellness Committee Mtg @Zoom
Jan 215:30 PM KES Ohana Mtg @Zoom

HAʻAHAʻA AND LISTENING

To gain the kingdom of heaven is to hear what is not said, to see what cannot be seen, and to know the unknowable – that is Aloha. All things in this world are two: in heaven there is but One.

Queen Liliuokalani

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: HAʻAHAʻA

In my youth, I had frequently been complimented as a good listener. But since learning about and practicing the Aloha Response from Pono Shim, I wonder if it was just because I’d sit quietly without interjecting. In my family, I tended to be more like my dad who would sit placidly as my mom, uncles, and cousins would share stories, tell jokes, and entertain the crowd. He’d sit at the end of the table, sipping on a whiskey, unobtrusively taking in the chatter, and occasionally cracking a smile. One-on-one, my dad would sit beside me serenely taking in the scenery, observing the stars and offer a sentence or two of advice. 

Later, as a teacher, I began to exhibit more qualities inherited from my mom. Perhaps it was being at the front of the classroom and feeling the pressure to maintain the attention of my students, I began to share more stories, tell more jokes. But in crowds, I was still more comfortable, fading into the background.

Regardless, whether up in front or shying away, in retrospect, I don’t think I was a great of listener. Sure I maintained eye contact, did not interrupt, and could recall what I was told. But I still interpreted what I heard through my own experiences. I was not haʻahaʻa, empty of my ego. 

If someone told me a story about how they were arguing with a friend, I immediately thought about arguments I’ve had with my friends, how I felt as a result, and ultimately my reaction. I did not listen to understand how their situation might be different from my experience and how that might shape their feelings towards the situation. For example, perhaps they grew up abandoned by a parent and this affected the magnitude by which they felt betrayed by the friend. Their perspective of the argument would be miles apart from my own had I been in a similar situation.

Since learning and practicing to empty myself of my ego – at least temporarily while I listen, I feel like I am a much better listener. Further, I have become less argumentative, more contemplative, and better able to others feel heard.  Pono called this the “Heavenly Perspective.” When we empty ourselves, we are able to rise above to see every point-of-view and gain deeper empathy. This is Aloha.


5 PURSUITS of HAʻAHAʻA:

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch The Overlook Book: Change Your Perspective, Change the World written and illustrated by Megan Fullmer Perry.  Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Share with your kūpuna or mākua about a time when you felt not seen or misunderstood. Ask if they ever felt like that and what they did or wish they did as a result.
  • SKILLS: Use evidence from the text, what is the author’s message to the audience?
  • INTELLECT: What does “perspective” mean? 
  • CRITICALITY: In the book, the author says, “Walls can limit what we see. Same with fences, borders, and trees. New ways to look at life could lend this thought: beyond borders, we can find friends.” How do walls and borders keep us from making friends?
  • JOY: With your ʻohana or a group of friends, play a perspective taking game from this video.

COMPREHENSIVE NEEDS ASSESSMENT MAHALO

Last Friday, we gathered for our annual assessment of our school’s strengths and challenges to come up with potential implications for next year’s Academic Plan. Joining our staff were members from our School Community Council, Wellness Committee, ʻOhana Engagement Committed, and Student Council. Mahalo nui loa to Rylie Ancheta-Kwok, Tyler Ancheta-Kwok, Grace Colunga, Derek Esibill, Monica Esquivel, Blake Fong-Aiu, Aysis Heya, Jennifer Kwok, Alanna Mara, Gideon Ng, Shelly Tokunaga-May, Vaughn Tokashiki, and Taevia Williamson for spending the day with us and helping us commit to the continuous improvement of our school.

FAMILY ROUTINES THAT NURTURE A CHILD’S GROWTH MINDSET

Growth Mindset was one of the areas reviewed last Friday and it’s what we are striving to foster on Silver Linings Day. When students strengthen Growth Mindset skills, they become more resilient towards set-backs, more persistent towards overcoming challenges, and more honest towards mistakes they’ve made.  See these tips on how your ʻohana can cultivate a Growth Mindset with your keiki.


CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR KĀNEʻOHE SHIRT WEDNESDAYS

Help us build unity and show our lōkahi by wearing a shirt that celebrates Kāneʻohe on Wednesdays. Wear any previous Fun Run or grade level shirt.

WEEKLY VIRTUAL PIKO

Our Weekly Piko, has changed to twice-a-week. In-person on the first day of the week and virtual on the last day. At piko we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays when we meet in-person. If you would like to share your reflections on the week’s Aloha value, please contact me.

If you’d like to celebrate the accomplishments of our students outside of the school day. Please use this link to share a brief shout-out for your child that we can share at piko.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Dec 17School Ends at 2:05 PM (switch with 12/19)
Dec 19Winter Songfest 8:30 – 9:15 AM Winter Songfest 1st Show (for those with an eldest student is in grades K, 1st, 2nd, and 3rd) 9:30 – 10:15 am Winter Songfest 2nd show: (for those with an eldest student is in grades 4th, 5th, and 6th)
School ends at 1:15 PM (switch with 12/17)
End of Quarter 2
Jan 5Teacher Work Day – No students
Jan 6Complex PC Day – No students
Jan 7 1st Day of School for 2026

BALANCING AND ʻOLUʻOLU

Gentleness is not a lack of strength; gentleness is strength under control.

Voddie T. Baucham Jr.

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: ʻOLUʻOLU

For a few years between the release of the original Top Gun and Nirvana’s Smells Like Teen Spirit topping the Billboard charts, I served as a part-time program director for the Atherton YMCA near the University of Hawaiʻi. Looking back, I am unsure how I balanced my studies as a Civil Engineering undergrad and the demands of planning weekly activities for freshmen seeking connections and purpose. But, my time in the Y truly made my college years worthwhile, forging lifelong friendships.

Five of us coordinated various volunteer programs including a mentorship project for students with disabilities, a choir that went on to birth Ohia Productions, and the then famous Freshman Orientation AKA FROSH Camp. As young adults thrusted into leadership roles, we were promoted largely because Clayton, our Executive Director saw something in us. Like geodes laying amongst a pile of rocks, he predicted we possessed raw talents that just needed polishing. Clayton coached us, providing feedback that addressed our deficits, and generously praised our accomplishments. But more importantly, he modeled what it meant to be a true leader.

When he called our very first meeting as a team, a couple of us straggled in several minutes late. Once everyone got seated, he opened the meeting by swearing us out. He said, “I ****!ing hate when people are late. They are selfish and inconsiderate of my time.” We were taken aback. I was shocked. As a very visible presence at the Y, he had never scolded or used expletives. He had seemed more like an easy going, agreeable minister than a foul mouthed, drill sergeant. 

My friend Lisa Mats spoke up. She apologized for being late but stated she did not appreciate how he addressed it. She understood his point about tardiness being a sign of inconsideration, but did not feel it warranted swearing. As she spoke, Clayton looked at her stoically but not with anger. He then said, “Well, then I am ****ing sorry.”

A few days later, Clayton called another meeting. We arrived early looking skittish. As we bowed our heads, examining our hands, Clayton apologized for how he handled the issue. He clarified that he still felt insulted and expected punctuality, but pledged to address us in a more respectful, collegial manner. He shared that he held high expectations for our team but he also wanted us to lead with kindness and empathy. Clayton admitted that he could not expect that of us if he didn’t model it first.

After that day, he held true to his promise. Clayton’s corrections were the epitome of ʻoluʻolu. They were specific, thoughtful and filled with respect. We knew he wasn’t scolding us to make us feel bad or punish us. Instead, we could tell that he was invested in our growth. He saw something greater in us than we ever imagined for ourselves. And sculpting that took drawing attention to both what we were doing right and how we could get better. 


5 PURSUITS of ʻOLUʻOLU:

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch More-igami written by Dori Kleber and illustrated by G. Brian Karas.  Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Talk with your kūpuna about a skill they worked hard to master. What is something you would like to master?
  • SKILLS: Use evidence from the text to explain what Mr. Lopez means when he says, “Many artists are misunderstood, especially when they are just learning.”
  • INTELLECT: Learn about how origami is used in engineering.
  • CRITICALITY: A study found that males made up less than a quarter of students taking college-level art due to many feeling art is not masculine. Do you feel art is more feminine? How could we make anyone, regardless of gender feel accepted as an artist?
  • JOY: Fold an origami – either the butterfly from the video or from this guide.

HOʻOMAIKAʻI LAUREN COLLIER

Recently, our very own Lauren Collier was featured in the HIDOE’s community newsletter. We are very proud that she was recognized as our complex-area’s 2025 Teacher of the Year. Ms. Collier is a passionate, dedicated, accomplished teacher who sincerely deserves this accolade. Please read more about her story and how she became such a strong advocate for her students.


CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR KĀNEʻOHE SHIRT WEDNESDAYS

Help us build unity and show our lōkahi by wearing a shirt that celebrates Kāneʻohe on Wednesdays. Wear any previous Fun Run or grade level shirt.

WEEKLY VIRTUAL PIKO

At the Weekly Piko, we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays when we meet in-person. If you would like to share your reflections on the week’s Aloha value, please contact me.

If you’d like to celebrate the accomplishments of our students outside of the school day. Please use this link to share a brief shout-out for your child that we can share at piko.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Dec 12Waiver Day #4 – no students
Dec 17School Ends at 2:05 PM (switch with 12/19)
Dec 19Winter Songfest
8:30 – 9:15 AM Winter Songfest 1st Show (for those with an eldest student is in grades K, 1st, 2nd, and 3rd)
9:30 – 10:15 am Winter Songfest 2nd show: (for those with an eldest student is in grades 4th, 5th, and 6th)

School ends at 1:15 PM (switch with 12/17)

End of Quarter 2

THE ENERGY OF AKAHAI

“Living in a state of gratitude is the gateway to grace.”

Arianna Huffington 

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: AKAHAI

When our students visit ʻĀina Aloha o na Lima Hana, our community partner farm at Luluku, they are told to shed any negative feelings prior to entering the loʻi. The mahiʻai warn that the kalo absorbs the energy brought onto the land. Like the warming beams of sunshine, joy and love help the plants to grow heartily. However, anger and hate act like an herbicide, shriveling the roots and causing the leaves to dry and curl.

In the past, I was criticized by a few people who said that I seemed “not present.” At the time, I protested, arguing that I invested heavily in my relationships and my work. Years later, I now wonder if this criticism was indifferent to my productivity and instead predicated on the energy I emitted.  At work and at home, perpetually tired, I felt emotionally and psychologically spent. In retrospect, I was unhappy but did not acknowledge it. I poured myself into my work and other distractions. And while it was a time of fruitfulness, our school being recognized for elevating innovation, inclusivity, and ʻāina education, I swallowed my stress.

By overlooking my unhappiness, I failed to properly address what was causing it. This denial shriveled my health, grayed my hair, poisoned my blood. The stress must have been leaching from me like a subtly dank stench from an overused t-shirt.

Gratefully, my life changed . . .

I

made changes

to my life.

I met Pono Shim, Puanani Burgess, and a handful of friends who deepened my learning about aloha.

My failing marriage finally dissolved.

Fate drew me into a new, fulfilling and loving relationship.

My connection with my children strengthens.

And together, our school team is steadily building a community with aloha at our core.

Everyday, I am filled with appreciation for those in my life. This is not to say we are without struggle. Struggle will always be present. But the appreciation I feel fuels my aloha. It allows me to hoʻomau – persevere – and nou akahai – spread grace as if it were a handful of seeds bringing wealth to the land. 


5 PURSUITS of AKAHAI:

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch Ka Huakaʻi a Timoteo Haʻalilio written by Hinaikawaihiʻilei Keala and Hilinaʻi Sai-Dudoit and illustrated by Kamaehukauikahano Marrotte. 

Please note the book is read in ʻŌlelo Hawaiʻi. So if you do not understand the language, I recommend watching it first, listen to the narrator and pay attention to the illustrations. Then rewatch the video, lowering the sound and reading aloud the English subtitles.

Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Talk with your kūpuna or makua about what living in Hawaiʻi means to your ʻohana. What do you/they appreciate and value about making Hawaiʻi your home?
  • SKILLS: Using evidence from the text, what were the challenges Haʻalilio faced to gain recognition for the Kingdom of Hawaiʻi
  • INTELLECT: Learn about more about Timoteo Haʻalilio and the rule of King Kamehameha III who trusted in Haʻalilio to secure recognition of the Kingdom of Hawaiʻi
  • CRITICALITY: In 2023, Governor Green designated November 28 as Lā Kūʻokoʻa. Despite the overthrow of the Kingdom of Hawaiʻi, why is it important to remember Lā Kūʻokoʻa and its significance to the people of Hawaiʻi?
  • JOY: With your ʻohana, celebrate Lā Kūʻokoʻa by attending one of these free events:
    • 11/28 12 – 5 PM Lā Kūʻokoʻa @Bishop Museum – Register here – FREE for Kamaʻāina with registration, includes Museum admission
    • 11/29 – 10 – 3 PM Kūʻokoʻa Kūkanono @Kaeʻepulu Elementary School – Free/no registration needed

EXPERIENCING THE WONDERS OF AWE WHILE RAISING CHILDREN

Remember holding your baby for the first time? Or your first time seeing the green flash at sunset? Those moments of amazement seem rare and far between. After all, it’s easy to get caught up in the routines of everyday life and feel stuck in the doldrums. Yet, if we pay attention we might find moments of wonder and amazement hidden in plain sight, especially as we interact with our children. These moments conjured by our interactions is what researchers call ʻawe.ʻ

According to Cara Goodwin of the Parenting Translator, “Research shows that parents who experience more moments of awe [with their children] report greater life satisfaction, fewer negative emotions, and a deeper sense of meaning and emotional richness in their lives.” From reflecting on the wonders of raising your children to seeing the good in them, inducing awe can have profound affects on you and your children. Read more here on how to experience awe in your own life and share this with your children.


CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR KĀNEʻOHE SHIRT WEDNESDAYS

Help us build unity and show our lōkahi by wearing a shirt that celebrates Kāneʻohe on Wednesdays. Wear any previous Fun Run or grade level shirt.

WEEKLY VIRTUAL PIKO

At the Weekly Piko, we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays when we meet in-person. If you would like to share your reflections on the week’s Aloha value, please contact me.

If you’d like to celebrate the accomplishments of our students outside of the school day. Please use this link to share a brief shout-out for your child that we can share at piko.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Nov 27Thanksgiving Holiday – no school
Nov 28Lā Kūʻokoʻa – Hawaiian Independence Day   no school; KES office open
Nov 29KES Wellness Event – Canoe Paddling Workshop for the students gr 3 – 6 and their ʻOhana – Register Here
Dec 55:30 – 7 PM KES Ohana Winter Activity Sign-up to participate here
Dec 6Kāneʻohe Christmas Parade
Dec 12Waiver Day #4 – no students
Dec 17School Ends at 2:05 PM (switch with 12/19)
Dec 19Winter Songfest School Ends at 1:15 PM (switch with 12/17)