LŌKAHI AND THE DEEPER MEANING OF EA

Unity, agreement, accord, unison, harmony; agreed, in unity

Pukui, Mary Kawena, Hawaiian dictionary: Hawaiian-English, English-Hawaiian

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: LŌKAHI

Recently, I had the chance to talk story with Uncle Earl Kawaʻa, a cultural specialist with Kamehameha Schools. We attended a conference on Kukulu Kumuhana, a framework for well-being grounded in Hawaiian values. Although we sat in different parts of the room, I overheard Uncle Earl mentioning something about the concept of Ea which the framework defines as self-determination and agency. As I was in a different breakout, I could not hear what he shared however knowing Uncle Earl I guessed he was telling moʻolelo about Ea.

Later at lunch, I approached Uncle Earl as he dug into a bowl of chicken luau. Always generous with his knowledge, Uncle Earl explained that he advised his group to get to know the deeper meaning of the Kukulu Kumuhana concepts. He cautioned the literal meaning would suffice for basic actions, however the deeper meanings influence behaviors and attitudes. He used Ea as an example. Uncle Earl asked, “Where have you most prominently heard ʻEaʻ used?”

“The state motto: Ua mau ke ea o ka ʻāina i ka pono”

“Right, and where did that saying come from”

Sadly, I had forgotten that part of Hawaiian history and struggled to recall who authored the phrase. Without missing a beat, Uncle Earl went into teaching mode and said, “It came from the failed attempt by the British to take over the Kingdom of Hawaiʻi. When the captain who held the country captive was forced to retreat, King Kamehameha III proclaimed, ʻUa mau ke ea o ka ʻāina i ka ponoʻ But who was he saying that to?”

Before I could even utter, “who?” Uncle Earl said, “Everyone. Not just the Hawaiians. He meant it for all people.” Then referencing a talk Aunty Puanani Burgess gave earlier in the day, “Pono does not just mean righteousness. The deeper meaning is about being in harmony.” 

I understood. King Kamehameha III was speaking to all of us – all who share in the riches of this ʻāina. He proclaimed that Ea is not just about life but our responsibility to stand up for what’s right and serve this ʻāina. And pono is not just about righteousness, but our LŌKAHI, the common responsibility we share.


5 PURSUITS of LŌKAHI

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch this: Remember written and read by US Poet Laureate Joy Harjo; illustrated by Caldecott Medalist Michaela Goade. Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: In the poem, the author says, “Remember the sky that you were born under,
  • know each of the star’s stories.” Talk to your kupuna about the moʻolelo of the moon, the sun, and  constellations that were important to your ancestors.
  • SKILLS: Using evidence from the text, how might this poem be about Lōkahi?
  • INTELLECT: The author, Joy Harjo was the first U.S. Poet Laureate of Native American ancestry. Research what is a U.S. Poet Laureate and why this is such a great honor.
  • CRITICALITY: In the poem, the author says, “Remember the plants, trees, animal life who all have their tribes, their families, their histories, too. Talk to them, listen to them. They are alive poems.” How might we “talk” to plants, trees, and animal life? What might they be saying?
  • JOY: Sit and talk story with your kupuna. Spend time remembering things important to your family and ways that your connect.

A copy of the poem Remember  by Joy Harjo can be found here.


WAS THAT A WHALE UNDER OUR TENT?

Last week, our first graders were treated to a fantastic opportunity to walk through a life-sized humpback whale and learn all about its anatomy. Our first grade teachers arranged for the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration (NOAA) Hawaiian Islands Humpback Whale National Marine Sanctuary to have their scientists teach hands-on marine science lessons and provide our students a memorable and enriching learning experience.

A PARADE OF GOOD CHEER

If you sat along Kamehameha Highway on Saturday morning, you might have seen our very own Kāneʻohe Alala and Pū kani (the students who lead our piko every morning) reciting an ʻoli about Koʻolaupoko. You might have also seen our student council passing out goodies to the kids lined up along the road. And finally you might have seen members of our Lokahi dance program led by Ms. Nyonda. Mahalo nui loa to our VP Kalei Tim-Sing and Academic Coach Cherisse Yamada for organizing our entry into the Kāneʻohe Christmas Parade and for all of our students, staff and parent volunteers that joined us.

CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR PINK FOR MAUI WEDNESDAYS

Join us in letting “that light, that divine inspiration that Aunty Pilahi Paki says is given to you at your very beginning, come through and let your ALOHA join with the ALOHA of the collective to bring about healing.” 

DAILY VIRTUAL PIKO

At the Daily Piko, we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays.

UPCOMING EVENTS

Fri, Dec 8, 2023, 6 – 7 PMʻOhana Winter Activity – Holiday Crafts Make-n-Take
Sign-up by Wed. Dec 6
Wed, Dec 13, 2023, 4:30 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 20, 2023Winter Classroom Paina
end school at 2:05 PM (switch with 12/21)
Thur, Dec 21, 2023Winter Songfest
end school at 1:15 PM (switch with 12/20)
End of Quarter 2
Dec 22, 2023 – Jan 5, 2024Winter Break Intersession – no school
Wed, Dec 27, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Mon, Jan 8, 2024Waiver Day #3 – No Students

AKAHAI & FORGIVENESS

Aka, with care, and hai, to speak. To be tender of heart; meek

Andrews, Hawaiian Dictionary, 1865

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: AKAHAI

During the pandemic, I got hooked on watching Ted Lasso, a sometimes irreverent comedy that was always joyful and inspiring. For those who haven’t watched it, the main character, Ted, is an American football coach hired to lead a British soccer (football) team. Despite his ignorance of the game, Ted persists in winning over his boss, players, and fans with his kind, thoughtful approach. Throughout its three seasons, the team experiences sparks of success and slogs of gut-wrenching failure. All the while Ted consistently leads with aloha. 

For example, Ted reliably offers grace despite being betrayed by Nate, his ego-driven former assistant coach. At a press conference, after being publicly insulted by Nate who is now coaching a hostile, rival team, a reporter asks Ted for his thoughts about the jibe. Instead of firing back, Ted responds by complimenting Nate on his prowess as a coach. 

Near the end of the season, Nate realizes his errors and attempts to right the wrongs he caused. Ted predictably embraces Nate with compassion. However, Coach Beard, Ted’s best friend, adamantly remains furious for the treachery. Yet, without lecturing or chastising, Ted convinces Beard to forgive. He shows Beard security footage of Nate trying to undo a disloyal act towards the team without getting caught. He then reminds Beard that everyone, at some time in our lives, have needed to be shown grace. (WARNING – this clip is uncensored and includes several obscenities)

“I hope that either all of us or none of us are judged by the actions of our weakest moments, but rather the strength we show when and if we’re ever given a second chance.” 

In this season of gratitude, it seems natural to also reflect on forgiveness. After all, both are examples of being akahai in that they both leave others better for the exchange. With gratitude, the receiver feels seen and appreciated while the giver becomes more mindful of the gifts around them. With forgiveness, the receiver can feel as if a burden has been lifted while the giver (for whom it truly benefits) is left happier, freer, and relieved.

Sometimes, with the pressures of the holidays, people might thoughtlessly say or do hurtful things. Arguments spawn around the dinner table. Resentment builds in the prep or clean-up. Spats about nothing start like a dripping faucet and then burst like broken water main in our imagination. During those times, haʻahaʻa take a deep breath and empty yourself of judgement. Think about the other person’s perspective and how much we don’t know about what might be going on in their lives. Then akahai remember when you might have needed forgiveness. 

When a conflict arises between students, we engage them in a similar process called the Peace Path. Students take turns sharing their perspective and how they were wronged. The listener then checks to see if they understand what was said. They then take turns sharing how the friendship can be restored and what steps need to be taken so true forgiveness can occur. Last week, I helped two students through the process. In the end, one student who was slapped by the other said, “You are my friend. I don’t want to see you or anyone else hurt. When you act out of anger, you are only hurting yourself.” I can’t think of a truer statement of akahai coming from a 5th grader.


5 PURSUITS of AKAHAI

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch this: Be a Good Ancestor written by Leona Prince and Gabrielle Prince; illustrated by Carla Joseph. Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Talk with your kupuna about what it might mean to be a good ancestor in your culture. What are the values you might find similar to those expressed in this book? What might be different?
  • SKILLS: Using the same writing pattern of the authors use in this book, write about one of the values you discussed with your kupuna about being a good ancestor. You can use a Flow Map to help plan out your writing.
  • INTELLECT: The authors say, “Nations become allies.” What is an “ally”?
  • CRITICALITY: The authors suggest “Be a good ancestor with your thoughts. Thoughts become ideas. Ideas become actions. Actions become movements. Movements become change.” Given this, how might we be a good ancestor with our thoughts so that we can lessen the hate in the world and increase the kindness?
  • JOY: Together, be a good ancestor by doing something that shows AKAHAI for the ʻāina. Examples include picking up ʻōpala (rubbish), planting a tree, tending to a garden, make a plan to conserve wai (water), recycle cans/bottles/glass/paper, participate in a service project, etc.

Extend the conversation by viewing one of the authors, Leona Prince, talking about the book and it’s important concepts.


GRATITUDE

Our student council put up a gratitude wall outside the library to give a shout-out to anyone students are thankful for. Here’s a few of the dozens of messages on the wall:

DANGER: WALKING WHILE LOOKING AT YOUR DEVICE

Our amazing volunteers at Mokulele have noticed that some students are looking at their devices as they cross the street, not paying attention to the on-coming traffic or hazards that might lie in their path. Please help us keep our keiki safe by joining us in teaching them to avoid looking at their devices while walking and to beware of the consequences.

COMPELLING READ: The Pandemic Disrupted Adolescent Brain Development

Emerging research shows the pandemic may be attributed to changes in the brains of adolescents nine – 17. These changes, consistent with high levels of stress affect neuroplasticity, the ability to learn new things, as well as deterring the development of language, cognition and social and emotional well-being.

Regardless the cause, we have seen an uptick in students struggling with their mental health. As educators and parents, we must consider how we can help students access resources if they are in need. For example, our school partners with Hazel Health, a licensed provider of free teletherapy services. We also have an amazing counseling staff that now includes a school social worker. If your have concerns about your child’s social and emotional well-being, please let us know.

CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR PINK FOR MAUI WEDNESDAYS

Join us in letting “that light, that divine inspiration that Aunty Pilahi Paki says is given to you at your very beginning, come through and let your ALOHA join with the ALOHA of the collective to bring about healing.” 

DAILY VIRTUAL PIKO

At the Daily Piko, we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Wed, Nov 29, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Thu, Nov 30, 2023, 6:30 PMKES Ohana Meeting
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 13, 2023, 4:30 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 20, 2023Winter Classroom Paina
end school at 2:05 PM (switch with 12/21)
Thur, Dec 21, 2023Winter Songfest
end school at 1:15 PM (switch with 12/20)
End of Quarter 2
Dec 22, 2023 – Jan 5, 2024Winter Break Intersession – no school
Wed, Dec 27, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Mon, Jan 8, 2024Waiver Day #3 – No Students

AHONUI FINDING THE RIGHT THING TO SAY

Literally, great breath

Pukui, Mary Kawena, Hawaiian dictionary : Hawaiian-English, English-Hawaiian

s., Aho, patient, and nui, much. Forbearance; long suffering; patience.

Andrews, Hawaiian Dictionary, 1865

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: AHONUI

Have you ever struggled to find an appropriate response after someone told you about something bad that happened to them? You feel a mounting pressure to say something but the words are not coming. You want to help this person feel better and take away their pain. You try to place yourself in their “shoes” and say the things you might want to hear. In the end, you say something, but did your words make a difference? 

Ahonui along with haʻahaʻa help us to find the most appropriate response and when to relay it. Where haʻahaʻa is about emptying ourselves of thoughts, ego and judgement when listening to someone, ahonui is about waiting for the moment by being attentive to the speaker and intuiting what type of response is needed and when. 

Recently, I had the honor of sitting in on a book talk by Stephanie Malia Krauss, author of Whole Child, Whole Life: 10 Ways to Help Kids Live, Learn, and Thrive. The book talk was different in that high school students were invited to share their thoughts about what adults needed to hear about their lives and struggles. Meanwhile, adults were to sit in haʻahaʻa and listen. The students talked about being crushed by the tremendous pressure to achieve while grappling with feelings of loneliness, anxiety and depression. They felt misunderstood by their parents and teachers, being told to “be strong” or “don’t worry about that.” 

As a teen, I certainly experienced similar feelings, but I did not have the added stressors that comes with social media and being isolated during my formative years. How do I know what to say to help these teens – especially when I too was taught to swallow my emotions, not show weakness, and just carry on? – Lessons that arguably have led others in our past to instead excessively self-medicate with substances, express frustrations by abusing loved ones, and/or retreat into isolation.  

Instead of advising the students or presenting them with a solution, Ms. Krauss modeled haʻahaʻa and ahonui during her talk. She communicated with empathy, paraphrasing and then asking students if she completely heard them. She did not judge or criticize what was said. Instead she showed acceptance and compassion. 

In our own relationships, that can sometimes be hard to express, especially when our ego and own sense of protectiveness kicks in. So it’s important to remember to exhale and empty ourselves of judgement, be haʻahaʻa. Then if you struggle with the words to say, try asking this simple question my partner taught me. With ahonui simply ask, “How can I best support you?”


5 PURSUITS of HAʻAHAʻA

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch this: First Laugh–Welcome, Baby!  written by Rose Ann Tahe and Nancy Bo Flood; illustrated by Jonathan Nelson. Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Many cultures celebrate different milestones as a baby grows and develop. Discuss with a kupuna what milestones are celebrated in your culture.
  • SKILLS: The author uses many different descriptive words the baby’s actions that might indicate smiling or laughing. Draw a Bubble Map of describing the baby in this story.
  • INTELLECT: Smiling and laughing are developmental milestones for babies that indicate they are becoming more socially aware. Research when smiling and laughing typically happen for most babies and the reason why we smile and laugh.
  • CRITICALITY: Tupac Shakur once wrote, “the power of a smile, especially yours, can heal a frozen heart” How might a smile and helping others smile cause less hate in this world?
  • JOY: Share some laughter with your loved ones this week. Celebrate each other for the gifts they share.

JOIN THE H-PEP’s GRATITUDE HUI

On behalf of the Hawaiʻi Postive Engagement Project (H-PEP), parents and educators are invited to join an in-person workshop focused on sparking gratitude. Activities include:

  •  Sharing stories
  •  Making new connections
  •  Writing a heartfelt Mahalo letter
  •  Crafting a personalized bracelet for someone in your life you would like to Aloha. 

Sign up for Gifts of Gratitude, Saturday, December 2, 2023, at Ka Waiwai Mōʻiliʻili, Oahu. 

Please note that you can only sign up for 1 group and must attend the full session. Open to all Hawaiʻi educators and parents. Opening event is free to join and registration is required by Monday, 11/27/23.

FOSTERING HEALTHY EATING HABITS – KĀNEʻOHE COOKS

Mahalo nui loa to our Wellness Committee and all who contributed to our Kāneʻohe Cooks event, last week Wednesday including

  • Aina Aloha o na Lima Hana
  • Joni Kamiya and Kamiya Farms
  • Kāneʻohe Elementary Cafeteria Staff
  • Dr. Jon Oka Family Dentistry
  • The Rocket Scientist
  • Our wonderful Wellness Committee and their ohana for running different booths: Erin Battles, Dee Fujinaka (with Dyan Nakamura), Jennifer Kwok, Chelsea Pang, and Travis Park 

If you attended, please provide us with feedback to make next year’s event even better. Even you didn’t attend but would like to get involved, please consider attending our next meeting on December 13 (link below in the calendar)

CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR PINK FOR MAUI WEDNESDAYS

Join us in letting “that light, that divine inspiration that Aunty Pilahi Paki says is given to you at your very beginning, come through and let your ALOHA join with the ALOHA of the collective to bring about healing.” 

DAILY VIRTUAL PIKO

At the Daily Piko, we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Wed, Nov 29, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 13, 2023, 4:30 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 20, 2023Winter Classroom Paina
end school at 2:05 PM (switch with 12/21)
Thur, Dec 21, 2023Winter Songfest
end school at 1:15 PM (switch with 12/20)
End of Quarter 2
Dec 22, 2023 – Jan 5, 2024Winter Break Intersession – no school
Wed, Dec 27, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Mon, Jan 8, 2024Waiver Day #3 – No Students

HAʻAHAʻA, ACCREDITATION AND LISTENING TO UNDERSTAND

Redup. of haʻa; low, lowly, minimum, humble, degraded, meek, unpretentious, modest, unassuming, unobtrusive; lowness, humility.

Pukui, Mary Kawena, Hawaiian dictionary : Hawaiian-English, English-Hawaiian 

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: HAʻAHAʻA

Stephen R. Covey once observed, “The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply.” Accordingly, Aunty Pilahi Paki and Pono advised we practice haʻahaʻa and empty ourselves of thoughts, ego and judgement when listening to someone. Conversely, if we take the words spoken to us, filter it through our own experiences and opinions, we will fail to completely understand that person’s perspective. For example, imagine someone is telling you about an awful restaurant experience. As they speak, you might be thinking about the last time you were at that restaurant or how you had a similar experience. Yet, their experience is completely their own. It’s influenced by multiple factors such as their sensitivity to salt, their unique taste buds (did you know that some people are genetically predisposed to dislike dark chocolate and other bitter foods?), how their day went, how their server’s day went, food traditions they experienced growing up, etc. That’s why Yelp reviews can vary so greatly for the same restaurant. So instead, empty yourself of personal thoughts then listen. Ask questions to clarify your understanding. Check to ensure you understood.

When a visiting team comes to a school for the purpose of accreditation, it’s too easy for the team to listen to reply by bringing in their own educational background; see things as if they were a teacher or administrator in that school. Having served with the WASC Accreditation Commission for more than 20 years, I’ve heard too often, “Back at my school…” or “If I were you…”. Admittedly, when I first started serving on visiting teams, I was guilty of filtering my observations through my experiences as a teacher and how we did things at Kailua High School. 

Gratefully, the team that visited us last week, led by Deborah Hofreiter, a retired administrator from California, conducted the visit with haʻahaʻa. She reminded her team, “We are here to learn about Kāneʻohe” and not to insert what they think is going on. When the self-assessment we submitted to them lacked clarity, the team interviewed people. They listened until they understood.

As a result, the team created a report of their findings that accurately described where we are as a school. They noted strengths and areas of growth that we already saw within ourselves. Additionally, they also spotlighted several areas of strength we acknowledged but did not emphasize. They were especially impressed with our focus on STEM, our vibrant community partnerships, and the extent to which ALOHA permeates our culture. In fact, our visiting chair glowingly reported how much ALOHA she and the team felt from all members of our school community. As an example, she cited an exchange with one of our students. When she asked, “what stands out to you about Kāneʻohe Elementary” the student replied, 

The longer you are at Kāneʻohe the more aloha gets into your heart. I know this because it happened to me.

Kawika, 5th grader

We are grateful for a visit that was conducted with haʻahaʻa and the opportunity to be truly seen. Mahalo nui loa to the team: Deborah Hofreiter, Malia Draper, Kristi Maruno, and Celestino Palacio.


5 PURSUITS of HAʻAHAʻA

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch this: When We Were Alone read by the author, David Robertson and illustrated by Julie Flett. Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Like the girl in this story, practice haʻahaʻa, and listen to understand. Ask your kupuna about something in their past that influences them today (like what they wear, something they always say, or often do).
  • SKILLS: This story features many examples of simile, (i.e. We all mixed together like storm clouds.) Practice making a simile to describe your kupuna.
  • INTELLECT: This story is about a woman who survived the American Indian residential schools that attempted to “civilize” or “Americanize” Native American children. Native Hawaiians faced similar treatment as their language was banned from schools from 1896 to 1978. Talk about what would’ve happened to the language and knowledge of Native Hawaiians if that ban was never lifted.
  • CRITICALITY: How does the grandmother in this story express her resilience and strength given her treatment as a child? What ALOHA value might this be an example of?
  • JOY: Share what you and your friends or siblings do when you are alone, away from adults. What do you do that brings you joy?

Parents/Kupuna/Teachers: Here is another version of a read aloud that features the artwok and words of the story.


FOSTERING HEALTHY EATING HABITS

This week, our Wellness Committee present Kāneʻohe Cooks, a return to our pre-pandemic campaign to promote healthy habits. Our committee is motivated by the desire to help our students develop healthy habits so that they not only feel better but they are able to learn better. 

Did you know that childhood obesity is significantly linked to higher rate of depression, anxiety, and lower self-esteem? This in turn can also lead to social problems such as being bullied. And since we know all of these conditions can draw attention from learning, obesity is also associated with lower academic achievement.

Along with discouraging sugary snacks, we advise families adopt the daily 5-2-1-0 strategy:

  • 5 Servings of Fruits, Roots and Vegetables
  • 2 Hours of Screen Time
  • 1 Hour of Physical Activity
  • 0 Sugary Drinks

Western Association of Schools & Colleges (WASC) VISIT – WHAT’S NEXT

At the end of the visit, the WASC Visiting Committee shared their appreciation to the staff, students, parents, and community members of our Kāneʻohe Elementary community. They loved seeing our classrooms, taking in the beauty of our campus, hearing our stories, and gathering our suggestions, weaving them into their final visiting report.

The Visiting Committee now submits their report to the WASC Commission who will make a final determination regarding our accreditation status. The Commission meets in January, so we practice ahonui until we hear official word sometime in the new year.

Mahalo nui loa for all who organized, supported, shared, and helped us prepare for this accreditation visit. It required a lot of coordinated effort and the experience underscored how fortunate I am to be a part of this school community.

CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR PINK FOR MAUI WEDNESDAYS

Join us in letting “that light, that divine inspiration that Aunty Pilahi Paki says is given to you at your very beginning, come through and let your ALOHA join with the ALOHA of the collective to bring about healing.” 

DAILY VIRTUAL PIKO

At the Daily Piko, we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Tue, Nov 14, 2023Fall Picture Retakes
Wed, Nov 15, 2023, 5:30 – 7 PMThe Wellness Committee presents: Kāneʻohe Eats register here
deadline to register is Monday 11/13 4 PM or until capacity is reached
Fri, Nov 17, 2023Deadline to submit KES Ohana Fall Giftcard orders
Wed, Nov 29, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 13, 2023, 4:30 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 20, 2023Winter Classroom Paina
end school at 2:05 PM (switch with 12/21)
Thur, Dec 21, 2023Winter Songfest
end school at 1:15 PM (switch with 12/20)
End of Quarter 2
Dec 22, 2023 – Jan 5, 2024Winter Break Intersession – no school
Wed, Dec 27, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Mon, Jan 8, 2024Waiver Day #3 – No Students

ʻOLUʻOLU AND THE “FIRST THANKSGIVING”

Pleasant, nice, amiable, satisfied, contented, happy, affable, agreeable, congenial, cordial, gracious; please.

Pukui, Mary Kawena, Hawaiian dictionary : Hawaiian-English, English-Hawaiian

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: ʻOLUʻOLU

As a kid, growing up in Hawaiʻi, what I was taught about Thanksgiving seemed pretty typical for any kid growing up across the US. In class we made construction paper Pilgrim hats and colored pictures of the Mayflower. We learned that the Pilgrims stood up against the King of England who persecuted them for practicing their religion. To gain their freedom, they braved a long, arduous voyage across the sea before landing at Plymouth Rock, Massachusetts. Many lives were lost at sea and then more died from sickness and starvation as they struggled to survive in the “New World”. With winter coming, they might not have made it through if not for the help of some friendly Native Americans who taught them how to farm. To thank them, the Pilgrims invited members of the tribe for a feast and that was the first Thanksgiving. 

Since then, the event has been mythologized as the “first Thanksgiving.” Along with it being a day to show gratitude, it has come to symbolize the perseverance and good intentions of the Pilgrims and by projection, Americans. Today, 400 years later, we have a fuller picture of that event as perspectives of the Wampanoag people have pushed through the soil of history that once buried it.

The Pilgrims established their colony in Plymouth just as winter was beginning. With inadequate supplies, winter nearly decimated the colony. Luckily, the Pilgrims stumbled across Wampanoag storehouses and survived on plundered provisions. In the months that followed, despite the trespass, members of the Wampanoag people showed ʻoluʻolu -a gracious, nice act – to the Pilgrims teaching them farming practices that would help them thrive. Later that fall, the Pilgrims and the Wampanoag celebrated an abundant harvest with a feast lasting three days. The alliance formed between the Pilgrims and Wampanoag was short lived. Eventually they and other colonists pushed for more land and greater access to resources. This led to the seizing of lands and the enslavement and mass killing of the Native Americans.

Although reduced in numbers and confined to smaller plots of land, members of the Wampanoag continue to live in Massachusetts. Since the 1970s they have been calling for the stories of their ancestors to be heard and for justice to be restored. Instead of Thanksgiving, they commemorate the occasion as a National Day of Mourning. It is a peaceful protest decrying the discrimination and oppression their ancestors faced. It is not a call to arms or a threat to overthrow the government. Instead, Wampanoag produce video segments, write books, give talks and do all they can to tell their stories with the hope of bringing about change. In this sense, the Wampanoag remain ʻoluʻolu – simultaneouslygentle and strong – persevering to educate and right the wrongs of the past.


5 PURSUITS of ʻOLUʻOLU

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch this: Keepunumuk: Weeâchumun’s Thanksgiving Story written by Danielle Greendeer, Anthony Perry, and Alexis Bunten, and illustrated by Garry Meeches Sr. (Illustrator) Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Corn, squash and beans were so important to the Wampanoag, they called them the three sisters and viewed them as gifts from the Great Spirit. Talk with your family about what plants/food sources are important to your culture.
  • SKILLS: What genre of literature best describes this book?
  • INTELLECT: How does this story differ from the more common Thanksgiving story that is frequently told about the Pilgrims?
  • CRITICALITY: How does hearing different perspectives of a historical event help us promote equity and prevent injustice?
  • JOY: Try making Nasamp, a traditional Wampanoag dish that may have been shared during the great harvest feast.

Parents/Kupuna/Teachers: Learn more about this story through a thought provoking interview with the book’s authors. 


Western Association of Schools & Colleges (WASC) VISIT

Kāneʻohe Elementary is an accredited institution and every six years, must undergo a renewal process to maintain it’s accreditation status. As such, this week we welcome three educators from schools across Hawaiʻi and one from California. Over the course of the week, they will visit our classrooms, interview members of our school community, and observe our practices. At the end of the week, they will provide a report of their findings and any recommendations pertinent to our continued efforts to improve. If you see our esteemed visitors on campus, please be sure to say “Aloha” and welcome them to our school.

MOKULELE REMINDERS

For those that drop-off and pick-up students on Mokulele, please remember to show aloha to our neighbors. The roads across and mauka of our school are privately owned by the residents of Parkway. They asked me to relay this plea not to park, stop or use their roads as turn-arounds.  Please show aloha and mahalo for your kokua.

CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR PINK FOR MAUI WEDNESDAYS

Join us in letting “that light, that divine inspiration that Aunty Pilahi Paki says is given to you at your very beginning, come through and let your ALOHA join with the ALOHA of the collective to bring about healing.” 

DAILY VIRTUAL PIKO

At the Daily Piko, we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Nov 6 – 9, 2023WASC Accreditation Full Visit
Wed, Nov 8, 2023, 4:30 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Wed, Nov 15, 2023, 5:30 – 7 PMThe Wellness Committee presents: Kāneʻohe Eats register here
Wed, Nov 29, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 13, 2023, 4:30 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 20, 2023Winter Classroom Paina
end school at 2:05 PM (switch with 12/21)
Thur, Dec 21, 2023Winter Songfest
end school at 1:15 PM (switch with 12/20)
End of Quarter 2
Dec 22, 2023 – Jan 5, 2024Winter Break Intersession – no school
Wed, Dec 27, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Mon, Jan 8, 2024Waiver Day #3 – No Students

THE LŌKAHI BETWEEN TEACHER AND STUDENT

Agreement in mind; unanimity of sentiment; union of feeling; oneness; similarity. 

Andrews, Hawaiian Dictionary, 1865

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: LŌKAHI

As a high school physics teacher, I challenged myself to make physics understandable, applicable to real life, and enjoyable to learn. To do this, I couldn’t base my lessons solely on what I found interesting. I needed to get to know my students, become familiar with their interests, and appeal to what they found relevant. Consequently, for my group of beginning and aspiring drivers, we learned about the dynamics of motion by going into to the community to determine which was the most dangerous intersection in Enchanted Lakes. For our beach lovers, we learned about wave behavior by measuring sand erosion at Kailua Beach. And for every sweets lover, we learned about thermodynamics by creating human powered ice cream making machines. While many of my students were imbued with memorable lessons that inspired them to pursue careers in science and engineering, there was one lesson that inspired all and helped me to see the Lōkahi between teachers and students.

Did you know that we are comprised primarily of four elements: carbon, hydrogen, oxygen, and nitrogen? In a myriad of combinations, they comprise the air filling our lungs, the blood flowing through our veins, and the bones giving our bodies structure. But how did they get into our bodies – especially when 98% of the universe is hydrogen and helium? The answer lies in the way carbon, oxygen and nitrogen are created: in the nuclear reactors of stars. Only stars have the immense energy needed to fuse hydrogen and helium together to create these elements. And when a star explodes, these complex elements are shot across the vast universe and, despite the minuscule odds, onto our planet. Therefore, each and everyone of us are comprised of the rarest of stardust.

Students reliably marveled at this fact. They looks at their reflections differently, seeing themselves as a wonder of nature – as they should. As their teacher, I felt pleased to share this lesson with them since I could’ve benefited from knowing that fact when I was a teenager. Simultaneously, it served as a reminder of how even as an adult I needed to assimilate this lesson. Too often, as a teacher and now as an administrator, I mistakenly saw myself as separate from my students. I treated teacher and student as a one way relationship. Yet, in reality we are equal; all are learners. For in teaching one is simultaneously learning and in learning one is simultaneously teaching, even if one is not aware of it. And in this case, as I taught, I learned that I still needed practice in seeing all as beautifully rare stardust for whom the heavens as our elemental ancestors.


5 PURSUITS of LŌKAHI

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch this: The Day You Begin read by its author Jacqueline Woodson (same author as last week’s read aloud) and illustrated by Rafael López. Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: With a parent or kupuna, talk about something that makes each of you “fabulously different from everyone else you meet.” How can you turn this trait into your new beginning?
  • SKILLS: The illustrator used rulers as a metaphor for how we measure ourselves against other people. Rewatch the story to see at which points the rulers appear. What was happening in the story? How were the characters measuring themselves?
  • INTELLECT: The author shares that rice is the most eaten food in the world. Research what other foods are among the most eaten. What foods do you and your ohana eat that are among the most eaten in the world? What are foods you and your ohana love that are not on that list? Why do you think some foods are eaten across the world and others are not?
  • CRITICALITY: The author reminds us, “how grateful every room we walk into should be for our presence there.” What are the gifts you bring into the room? What gifts do others bring into the room that you are grateful for?
  • JOY: Draw a picture of a time where you measured yourself against others. Include a ruler in your drawing as Rafael López did for this book. Share your picture with your parents, kupuna, or class.

VISIT BY PULITZER-PRIZE WINNING JOURNALIST & KĀNEʻOHE ALUMNUS

Last week Wednesday, Mrs. Nagaishi’s Language Arts Enrichment students were treated to a special visit by Ellen Nakashima, an alumnus of Kāneʻohe Elementary and a journalist with the Washington Post. During her talk, Ms. Nakashima regaled students with stories about her career, the world affairs she covered, and the amazing people she met. She even shared how at one point she narrowly avoided being kidnapped by terrorists in the Philippines. As a reporter with the Washington Post, Ms. Nakashima has been “a member of three Pulitzer-prize winning teams at The Post, including in 2022 for an investigation of the Jan. 6 assault on the U.S. Capitol, in 2018 for digging into Moscow’s efforts to influence the 2016 election, and in 2018 for exploring the hidden scope National Security Agency surveillance.” We mahalo Ms. Nakashima for inspiring our students and letting them know that being from Kāneʻohe is an asset from which they can explore the world and make a great difference. Fun fact: Ms. Nakashima is Aunty Karen Kimura, our STEM resource teacher’s sister.

HALLOWEEN CELEBRATIONS

To get us into the fall spirit, our student council organized a Halloween Spirit “Week” for our school. 

  • On Monday, we invite students to wear orange and/or black. 
  • On Tuesday, we will have a Halloween Costume Parade on the lower field after morning piko (weather permitting). NOTE: we invite parents/kupuna to watch the parade and piko.
  • We will also be putting out an anti-BOOllying video next week by our student council.  

Lastly, please remember that our School Celebration Policy prohibits the distribution of cupcakes and other sugary snacks. Instead, if you are wanting to give out goodies, please consider non-edible Halloween treats such as: Bubbles, Lego, glow sticks, games, playdough, slime, vampire teeth, finger puppet rings, bugs, spider soap, funny pencils, beads and strings. Please know that any cupcakes or sugary snacks brought to school will be returned and not distributed.


CONTINUED PRACTICES:

NATIONAL BULLYING PREVENTION MONTH CONTINUES

It is the last week of National Bullying Prevention Month, yet our efforts to be kinder, be more respectful, and act more civilly towards others will indefinitely continue.

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR PINK FOR MAUI WEDNESDAYS

Join us in letting “that light, that divine inspiration that Aunty Pilahi Paki says is given to you at your very beginning, come through and let your ALOHA join with the ALOHA of the collective to bring about healing.” 

DAILY VIRTUAL PIKO

At the Daily Piko, we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Oct 23 – Nov 3, 2023Parent-Teacher Conferences
early release 12:45 PM daily
Mon, Oct 30, 2023,Wear Orange and Black
Tue, Oct 31, 2023Costume Parade following in-person piko
Wed, Nov 1, 2023Complex PC Day – No Students
Nov 6 – 9, 2023WASC Accreditation Full Visit
Wed, Nov 8, 2023, 4:30 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Wed, Nov 29, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 13, 2023, 4:30 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 20, 2023Winter Classroom Paina
end school at 2:05 PM (switch with 12/21)
Thur, Dec 21, 2023Winter Songfest
end school at 1:15 PM (switch with 12/20)
End of Quarter 2
Dec 22, 2023 – Jan 5, 2024Winter Break Intersession – no school
Wed, Dec 27, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Mon, Jan 8, 2024Waiver Day #3 – No Students

LISTENING WITH AKAHAI

Aka, with care, and hai, to speak. To be tender of heart; meek

Andrews, Hawaiian Dictionary, 1865

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: AKAHAI

From the first day of school, John showed an unusual amount of aggression towards his classmates. While other kids climbed the jungle gym and played chase, he used his recess time grabbing classmates by the privates and trying to flip them over, WWF style. As a fairly new vice-principal my only corrective tools were to repeatedly suspend and chastise John. However, this had no effect as his hostility continued, seemingly without remorse. I grew increasingly frustrated and angry, especially after calling the parents of his victims. I felt as if he was doing this just to flout my authority.

Eventually, one of ours counselors was able to make headway. Mr. Nick possessed a gift for listening and helping students bring out the good within their hearts. During one of the counseling sessions, Mr. Nick heard from John that as far as he could remember, he was never embraced, never given physical affection. So Mr. Nick helped John understand the hurt he felt and in turn about the harm he caused. He helped him figure out how to fix things both within his heart and with others. And despite causing harm, he is still worthy of being listened to, being loved, and being shown compassion. Mr. Nick also worked with John’s mother to strengthen their relationship and show John know how much she loves him.

Six years later, I went back to my former school and saw John waiting patiently in a line to go to recess. He immediately recognized me, probably from the hours spent in my tiny VP office. He smiled and shook my hand, possessing a calmness and peace I had not previously seen. I asked him how he was doing and praised him for how much he grew. He made so much progress, the new administrators knew nothing of his past – only the positive attributes he now possessed. 

Research backs up my experience with John – that my efforts were ineffectual. Punitive measures such as suspension did not reduce his aggression nor did it make the school any safer. Listening with kindness or akahai, as implemented by Mr. Nick, coupled with counseling, however, changed the course of John’s life. It helped John eliminate his bullying behavior and instead become a model citizen. It brought out the aloha within.


5 PURSUITS of AHONUI

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch this: Each Kindness written by Jacqueline Woodson and illustrated by E. B. Lewis. Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: With a parent or kupuna, talk about the following: Have you ever regretted not showing kindness to someone before the chance was gone?
  • SKILLS: Bullying is defined as when someone is hurt by unwanted words or actions, repeatedly and has a hard time stopping what is happening to them because they feel less powerful.Do you think the kids were bullying Maya? Why or why not? Give specific details from the story that support your opinion.
  • INTELLECT: The narrator uses the word “tattered” to describe the doll that Maya brings to school. Based on how it’s used in the story, what do you think “tattered” means? How do the other students use that to judge Maya and call her Never New?
  • CRITICALITY: At the end of the story, what is the narrator thinking about as she watches the ripples across the pond? What lessons do you think the narrator has learned?
  • JOY: Like in the book, take turns with a friend, classmate, parent or kupuna, dropping a pebble into a big bowl of water and sharing a kind thing each of you have done.

Parents/Kupuna: Here’s a great follow-up read to this book about teaching your child to be kind.

NATIONAL BULLYING PREVENTION MONTH CONTINUES

October is National Bullying Prevention Month and in accordance, we have several initiatives planned. 

  • Thanks in part to our KES Wellness Committee, Mental Health America of Hawaiʻi provided an interactive training for our 5th and 6th graders on Becoming a Defender. Students learned about what is bullying, how to prevent it, and how to positively talk about dealing with difficult emotions. We will next schedule presentations for our 3rd and 4th graders.
  • Last Wednesday we participated in Unity Day, a call for inclusive, nurturing learning environment for all. To show our collective support; that we unite in speaking and acting with aloha – especially akahai, we gave all students orange, Unity Day bracelets. We continue to remind students they are making a promise to themselves and our community to be kinder, more respectful, more civil.
  • This week I continue in sharing a read alouds that has an anti-bullying message associated with the Aloha focus.

Please join us in promoting the National Bullying Prevention at home. Encourage your children to  be kinder, be more respectful, and act more civilly towards others.

ONGOING REMINDERS

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

See Uncle Pono Shim explain the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha as taught to him by Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets.

WEAR PINK FOR MAUI WEDNESDAYS

Join us in letting “that light, that divine inspiration that Aunty Pilahi Paki says is given to you at your very beginning, come through and let your ALOHA join with the ALOHA of the collective to bring about healing.” 

DAILY VIRTUAL PIKO

At the Daily Piko, we share thoughts on the Aloha value for the week which helps us become centered and ready to learn. We begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesdays.


UPCOMING EVENTS

Oct 23 – Nov 3, 2023Parent-Teacher Conferences
early release 12:45 PM daily
Oct 25, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Thur, Oct 26, 2023, 5 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Wed, Nov 1, 2023Complex PC Day – No Students
Nov 6 – 9, 2023WASC Accreditation Full Visit
Wed, Nov 8, 2023, 4:30 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Wed, Nov 29, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 13, 2023, 4:30 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 20, 2023Winter Classroom Paina
end school at 2:05 PM (switch with 12/21)
Thur, Dec 21, 2023Winter Songfest
end school at 1:15 PM (switch with 12/20)
End of Quarter 2
Dec 22, 2023 – Jan 5, 2024Winter Break Intersession – no school
Wed, Dec 27, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Mon, Jan 8, 2024Waiver Day #3 – No Students

AHONUI AND ADDRESSING BULLYING

Literally, great breath

Pukui, Mary Kawena, Hawaiian dictionary : Hawaiian-English, English-Hawaiian 

s., Aho, patient, and nui, much. Forbearance; long suffering; patience.

Andrews, Hawaiian Dictionary, 1865

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: AHONUI

During my terrible twos, my mother (Grandma Sadie whom you met through this year’s Silver Linings Day video) said I used to throw myself backwards, slamming my head on the ground. I then flailed my arms, kicked my legs, and screeched a piercing wail. It didn’t matter if we were in public. If I got angry, I’d throw this tantrum. Thank goodness there were no iPhones or social media back then. The only evidence she still possesses is a picture of me lying on the pavement in the middle of the Aiea Shopping Center parking lot. While my mother can laugh about it now, I’m sure at the time she felt stressed and frustrated. People passing by stared, possibly judged, “So shame. Control your kid.”

By the time I was three, I grew out of that phase. I could wait for what seemed like hours. Well before the iPad existed, I read, colored, or played with a Hot Wheel. But more importantly, I learned to better communicate my needs, control my body and regulate my emotions.

Given how extreme my tantrums were, my mom thought I had been replaced by another child. Yet, my “terrible twos” behavior fell just within the average end. Most kids tantrum at this age. However, some children, like my younger sister had very few tantrums (that I didn’t provoke) probably because her language skills were more advanced. She could clearly say and therefore get what she wanted.

Later, as a parent, I appreciated the ahonui, the forbearance my parents showed towards my off-putting, defiant, very public behavior. When my daughter was obstinate, I got furious. I felt as if she was disrespecting me. Yet, her obstinance was similar to my tantrums – part of the average behavior for kids her age. She was developing her language, learning to express her needs, while exploring boundaries. I didn’t realize this until I became an elementary educator and studied early child development. 

Now as an administrator, I see the broad range of average behavior our students exhibit and it requires our team to show ahonui  and ʻoluʻolu. At this age, students rarely tantrum, but they are still developing their language, emotional regulation, and social skills. As such, some students, as an attempt to gain power or control, tease others and exhibit physical aggression. These bullying behaviors are harmful and it’s easy to feel disappointment and anger towards the aggressor. In the past, these behaviors would lead to some sort of physical punishment or suspension. Then when it happened again, we would feel contempt as if the repeated act was aimed at flouting our authority. Yet, in reality it was not about us, the adults. It was about a child with immature language, emotional regulation and social skills still learning how to behave.

Today, we still state that bullying behaviors are not acceptable. However, to address the developing, immature skills, we implement consequences designed to teach empathy and self-control. This includes lessons on relationships, communication, and respectfully standing up for oneself and others. It could also necessitate in-school suspension filled with individual lessons and doing service projects that help those who have been victimized. It will involve meeting with parents so that we can move forward as a team and reinforce respectful behaviors at home and at school – all showing ahonui as the students learn and develop better social and self-regulation skills AND ʻoluʻolu as we provide clear, strong, supportive guidance.


5 PURSUITS of AHONUI

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch this: Sorry written by Trudy Ludwig and illustrated by Maurie J. Manning. Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: With a parent or kupuna find out the word or phrase your ancestors used to say “sorry.” Are there other or deeper meanings to this word or phrase? Share any stories/moʻolelo around this word/phrase.
  • SKILLS: Brainstorm as many synonyms or expressions of apology as you can.
  • INTELLECT: What does the word “restorative” mean? How does it apply to what Jack does towards the end of the story.
  • CRITICALITY: If your friend asked you to do something that can be harmful or disrespectful towards others, what can you say? Role play different examples.
  • JOY: Think of someone you’d like to say sorry to and create a beautifully decorated apology card that shows how sorry your are.

Parents/Kupuna: Here’s a great follow-up read to this book.

NATIONAL BULLYING PREVENTION MONTH & UNITY DAY

October is National Bullying Prevention Month and in accordance, we have several initiatives planned. 

  • Thanks in part to our KES Wellness Committee, Mental Health America of Hawaiʻi will provide an interactive training for our 5th and 6th graders on Becoming a Defender. Students will learn about what is bullying, how to prevent it, and how to positively talk about dealing with difficult emotions.
  • This Wednesday we will participate in Unity Day, a day calling for inclusive, nurturing learning environment for all. To show our collective support; that we are united in speaking and acting with aloha – especially akahai, we will give all students orange, Unity Day bracelets on Wednesday morning. As we hand them out, we will remind students about what the bracelet represents and in wearing it, they are making a promise to themselves and our community to be kinder, more respectful, more civil.
  • Each week for the remainder of the month, I will share a read alouds that has an anti-bullying message associated with the Aloha focus.

Please join us in promoting the Unity Day promise at home. Encourage your children to  be kinder, be more respectful, and act more civilly towards others.

NOʻAHUNA OF ALOHA

During the break, I spent some time with Miki Tomita and Hye Jung Kim, our friends from Education Incubator. They are working with the entire Castle-Kahuku Complex Area to incorporate more Aloha in our schools. One of the videos they shared during their presentation, was of our mentor, Uncle Pono explaining the Noʻahuna, the esoteric meaning, of Aloha. If you want to learn about what exactly Aunty Pilahi, the Keeper of Secrets, revealed to him about Aloha, I highly recommend watching this video.

ONGOING REMINDERS:

WEAR PINK FOR MAUI WEDNESDAYS

We are continuing to Wear Pink for Maui on Wednesdays and invite all to continue joining us in letting “that light, that divine inspiration that Aunty Pilahi Paki says is given to you at your very beginning, come through and let your ALOHA join with the ALOHA of the collective to bring about healing.” 

DAILY VIRTUAL PIKO – please join us

The Daily Piko helps us become centered and ready to learn. It helps us get on the same page, hearing one message of focus for the day and the week. If you are able, we begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesday when we conduct the piko in-person.

https://hidoe.zoom.us/j/89410873182?pwd=dERWOEs2SldQdW5aZHpDM29vdWdhdz09


UPCOMING EVENTS

Wed, Oct 18, 2023, 4:30 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Oct 23 – Nov 3, 2023Parent-Teacher Conferences
early release 12:45 PM daily
Oct 25, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Wed, Nov 1, 2023Complex PC Day – No Students
Nov 6 – 9, 2023WASC Accreditation Full Visit
Wed, Nov 8, 2023, 4:30 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Wed, Nov 29, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 13, 2023, 4:30 PMWellness Committee Meeting 
Join by Zoom
Wed, Dec 20, 2023Winter Classroom Paina
end school at 2:05 PM (switch with 12/21)
Thur, Dec 21, 2023Winter Songfest
end school at 1:15 PM (switch with 12/20)
End of Quarter 2
Dec 22, 2023 – Jan 5, 2024Winter Break Intersession – no school
Wed, Dec 27, 2023, 5 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Mon, Jan 8, 2024Waiver Day #3 – No Students

THE SILVER LINING IN BEING HAʻAHAʻA

Reduplication of haʻa #1; low, lowly, minimum, humble, degraded, meek, unpretentious, modest, unassuming, unobtrusive; lowness, humility

Pukui, Mary Kawena, Hawaiian dictionary : Hawaiian-English, English-Hawaiian 

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: HAʻAHAʻA

Seven years ago, we started celebrating failure and making mistakes on the last day of 1st quarter which we called Silver Linings Day. Inspired by Finland’s National Day of Failure, we wanted all students and our entire school community to know that it’s okay to fail and make mistakes. Failing and making mistakes is normal. Everyone at some point fails. No one who has achieved greatness made it without at some point failing and making mistakes. 

Despite this fact, many of us still allow a fear of failing/making a mistake to hold us back from trying or to get angry when things don’t come out as we wanted. Some students even get so down on themselves that they develop a belief that they are incapable of learning. They call themselves “stupid” and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, stopping them from absorbing what’s being taught. This belief can even spur students to act out in class when they perceive someone is calling them out for being behind.

Even adults experience this fear of failing/making a mistake. This weekend, a retired president of a prestigious private school told me a story about how during the 90s, a third of his teachers were resistant to use laptops, a “new” technology at the time. One of his teachers, an accomplished and well-loved educator, told him “Please don’t make me look stupid in front of the kids.”

So, every year, I humble myself, confront my fear of public humiliation, and learn something new. I then show students a video of my attempts with the aim that they will be inspired to approach learning with the same humility. After all, our mission is to have all embrace learning which means embrace a tolerance for making mistakes. Only by acknowledging them, reflecting on why they happened and improving upon them, can we authentically learn.

This year, we celebrate Silver Linings Day on Friday, October 6. On that day, I will release a video documenting a new thing I attempted to learn, featuring my mom, Grandma Sadie. Can’t wait? Here’s a snack: my first Silver Linings Day video from 2017.


5 PURSUITS of HAʻAHAʻA

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch this: Mistakes Are How I Learn written by Kiara Wilson. Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: Ask a parent or kupuna to share about a mistake they’ve made while getting skilled at something.
  • SKILLS: This story uses a rhyming scheme similar to prose or a poem. Write a rhyming poem about something you learned and the mistakes you made along the way.
  • INTELLECT: The book is about developing a Growth Mindset. Watch this video about what is a Growth Mindset and create a Bubble Map with adjectives related to having a Growth Mindset.
  • CRITICALITY: What are phrases (or affirmations) you can say to yourself to remind you to embrace your mistakes as a part of learning? What are phrases you can share with others who may be having a difficult time overcoming their mistakes?
  • JOY: Enjoy this song featuring Janelle Monáe about The Power of Yet.

MAHALO: SCHOOL COMMUNITY COUNCIL OFFICERS

Mahalo to parent Chelsea Pang for volunteering to serve as our School Community Council Chairperson. Mahalo also to community member Vaughn Tokashiki for serving as vice chair. Both play a vital role in helping our school through policy making, advising school administration, and developing school improvement initiatives. We also owe a debt of thanks to parent Shawna Kobayashi, our out-going chairperson.

MAHALO: CAMPUS BEAUTIFICATION DAY

This past Saturday nearly 100 volunteers comprised of our students, their parents, members of the community, the Castle High Key Club, our military partners, and members of our staff gathered to show akahai to our school. Mahalo piha to each and every one of them for leaving our campus much more beautiful and well cared for. Special thanks goes to 1st grade teacher Mrs. Kresge, Head Custodian Mr. Wali, and our Parent Community Network Coordinator Dee, for organizing this huge effort.

WEAR PINK FOR MAUI WEDNESDAYS

We are continuing to Wear Pink for Maui on Wednesdays and invite all to continue joining us in letting “that light, that divine inspiration that Aunty Pilahi Paki says is given to you at your very beginning, come through and let your ALOHA join with the ALOHA of the collective to bring about healing.” 

DAILY VIRTUAL PIKO – please join us

The Daily Piko helps us become centered and ready to learn. It helps us get on the same page, hearing one message of focus for the day and the week. If you are able, we begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesday when we conduct the piko in-person.

https://hidoe.zoom.us/j/89410873182?pwd=dERWOEs2SldQdW5aZHpDM29vdWdhdz09

UPCOMING EVENTS

Oct 2-6, 2023KES Book Fair
To donate to build your child’s classroom library, here is a link to our teachers’ eWallets.
Fri, Oct 6, 2023Silver Linings Day
End of Quarter 1
Oct 9 – 13, 2023Fall Break Intersession – no school
Oct 23 – Nov 3, 2023Parent-Teacher Conferences
early release 12:45 PM daily
Wed, Nov 1, 2023Complex PC Day – No Students
Nov 6 – 9, 2023WASC Accreditation Full Visit
Wed, Dec 20, 2023Winter Classroom Paina
end school at 2:05 PM (switch with 12/21)
Thur, Dec 21, 2023Winter Songfest
end school at 1:15 PM (switch with 12/20)
End of Quarter 2
Dec 22, 2023 – Jan 5, 2024Winter Break Intersession – no school
Mon, Jan 8, 2024Waiver Day #3 – No Students

THE ʻOLUʻOLU OF DANCE

Good natured; not easily provoked; good humored as applied to a nature of ease and cheerfulness. 

Parker, A Dictionary of the Hawaiian Language, 1865

ALOHA FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: ʻOLUʻOLU

On Saturday, I was treated to an impressive performance of hula kahiko at the Taste of Kalihi celebration. Mrs. Kreidler’s son was one of the performers and I welcomed the invitation to enjoy his talent and that of his halau. And I don’t think I am being hyperbolical when I say the performance was impressive. In addition to being highly poised and precise in their movements, every dance was performed bare foot on the unswept, asphalt parking lot adjacent to Dillingham Boulevard.

Watching the halau perform this feat, I wondered how they controlled their movements, looking amazingly graceful while enduring the pain. Every pivot on the balls of their feet, every sweeping vamp, risked scraping their feet against the jagged rocks. Yet, they continued to smile and hold themselves tall.

I think that it took incredible strength to appear so graceful and gentle in their movements – not just physical strength and muscular control, but inner strength to keep dancing while blocking out any distractions, especially ones causing blisters to form on the soles of their feet. Their effort serves as an inspiration for ʻoluʻolu. Uncle Pono and Aunty Pilahi Paki teach us that to be ʻoluʻolu we must be simultaneously strong and gentle. We must control our actions to maintain that careful balance. 

If the halau were too strong, their attempts to guard against the pain would make their movements appear rigid and forced. If too gentle, wincing with every jab, babying their feet, the dance would not have been as graceful. Like the halau, when provoked, even in the harshest conditions, we must remain both strong and gentle; be resilient and filled with grace. By doing so, we are able to show aloha even in the most challenging situations.


5 PURSUITS of ʻOLUʻOLU

Inspired by Gholdy Muhammad

Please watch this: Just Kidding written by Trudy Ludwig. Then with you child, answer the following:

  • IDENTITY: In the story, DJ’s father plays catch with him to help him calm down and get ready to talk about why he was angry. What are things you enjoy doing with your family that helps you calm down?
  • SKILLS: Create a Bubble Map describing the main character, DJ.
  • INTELLECT: Bullying behavior can be found in many different settings, from the home, in school, and even at people’s places of work. Research what is defined as bullying behavior and, like DJ, how can it be addressed and prevented.
  • CRITICALITY: Have you ever teased someone, like a friend or family member? How could you tell how they felt about it? How can you make sure that you are not hurting someone when you think you are just having fun?
  • JOY: With a friend or your ohana, play the game DJ, his father, and older brother play to neutralize the means things someone who teasing might say. (Remember the rule is to not say anything mean back to the person teasing.)

NOTE: Showing aggression is part of the normal development of children. Most grow out of it once they learn to better manage their anger and build their social skills. However if aggression persists and gets worse, it would be best to seek help from our school. Our counselors and school social worker are ready to assist.


WANTED: SCHOOL COMMUNITY COUNCIL CHAIRPERSON

The School Community Council (SCC) supports the school through policy making, advising school administration, and developing school improvement initiatives. It is comprised of parents, community members, teachers, classified staff, students and administrators. We are currently seeking nominations for anyone willing to serve on the SCC as it’s chairperson. The chairperson presides at all meetings and signs letters, plans, reports, and other SCC communications. If you are interested or would like to nominate someone for this role, please complete this nomination form by Monday, September 25.

WEAR PINK FOR MAUI WEDNESDAYS

We are continuing to Wear Pink for Maui on Wednesdays and invite all to continue joining us in letting “that light, that divine inspiration that Aunty Pilahi Paki says is given to you at your very beginning, come through and let your ALOHA join with the ALOHA of the collective to bring about healing.” 

DAILY VIRTUAL PIKO – please join us

The Daily Piko helps us become centered and ready to learn. It helps us get on the same page, hearing one message of focus for the day and the week. If you are able, we begin at 8 AM everyday except Wednesday when we conduct the piko in-person.

https://hidoe.zoom.us/j/89410873182?pwd=dERWOEs2SldQdW5aZHpDM29vdWdhdz09

UPCOMING EVENTS

Tue, Sept 26, 2023Fall Picture Taking Day
Wed, Sept 27, 2023, 4:30 PMSchool Community Council Meeting
Join by Zoom
Wed, Sept 27, 2023, 6:30 PMKES Ohana Mtg – Hybrid 
Attend in-person at the library -or-
Attend via Zoom
Thur, Sept 28, 2023, 8:15 AMOff-Campus Evacuation Drill
Fri, Sept 29, 2023Deadline for Federal Survey Cards
Sat, Sept 30, 2023Campus Beautification Day
Oct 2-6, 2023KES Book Fair
Fri, Oct 6, 2023Silver Linings Day
End of Quarter 1
Oct 9 – 13, 2023Fall Break Intersession – no school
Oct 23 – Nov 3, 2023Parent-Teacher Conferences
early release 12:45 PM daily
Wed, Nov 1, 2023Complex PC Day – No Students